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Thanks i know I need too :/ it’s just hard bc we have bonded and are close. It’s hard to get close to ppl and then suddenly they are gone from your life. Just have been through a lot of that.
YOU are bonded and close.... he is... probably something else. Realize that and do what's right for yourself, even if you don't "want" to do it.
At this point you have no idea where his peen has been (well, you know it's been with his GF), he is not a safe partner physically or emotionally.
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He was using you and saying things that you wanted to hear. No one feels that way about someone and then goes to find someone else. Come on. Think a little. Let this serve as a lesson. Find someone that deserves you.
Does his girlfriend know that he "hangs out" with you?
No so back to being someones secret... it was fine when I knew about other girls and they knew about me it was all out in the open.
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Sigh... I'm going to be honest, I knew this would happen. You accepted an fwb situation with this guy and that is where he is going to keep you. Now (predictably) your feelings are involved and now your self esteem is being affected. You knew this wasn't a good idea, and now you're experiencing what we predicted the first time you told us about this dude.
OP, stop torturing yourself and just move on. He's an a*hole for STILL filling your head up with fanciful ideas when he knew damn well he wouldn't follow through. And then has the audacity to say you're the one with the issues. You're allowing yourself to be used by a jerk. You know you deserve better.
i just feel like i’m not good enough and I dont get why. his reasons are stupid. I am just lonely I guess
So, you want to convert a FWB, who is a cheater, into a BF, who is still a cheater? I cannot imagine the market is too hot for a guy like him.
OP, please do yourself a favor and stop volunteering yourself to be his side-piece. Please give consideration to cutting ties with the cheater and finding yourself an honorable, decent guy to share time and your life with. There a plenty of men who meet that criteria who are not in relationships and are not cheaters.
What are his reasons other than you not having a degree?
what everyone in his life would think of me basically. this all came out after a fight. I had a feeling. Thought it was weird i was so important to him but never really met any body in his life.
YOU are bonded and close.... he is... probably something else. Realize that and do what's right for yourself, even if you don't "want" to do it.
At this point you have no idea where his peen has been (well, you know it's been with his GF), he is not a safe partner physically or emotionally.
that’s true and to be honest I do feel like he just wants sex now. that’s partly why it ended. before it wasn’t a relationship but at least it was also a connection.
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