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I am curious to know if other husbands rent XXX (porno) movies?
I recently saw evidence of my husband doing this. He is absolutely the most wonderful, loving husband/father ever. Am I just making too much out of it or do I need to be concerned?
I didnt have any problems with my husband looking at girly mags or talking 'big talk' at work with his buddies. Heck, his sister and I even hired an exotic dancer to come over and dance for him on his birthday once, no big deal. But then, it could depend on the guy too, some might want to take it further another time, but I knew for fact it wouldnt be a problem with him, he was always too uptight about everything.
Nope, a lot of husbands DON'T do it......I'm one of them. But, then again, I'm 59 years old also. Actually, I've never been attracted to porn anyway. Watched a couple of movies a few years ago (before being married), but just didn't "get into" them. My wife is very, very happy about that!! No magazines either.
As far as you go, just depends on what you can/want to tolerate. If you don't like it, talk to him and see what his reaction is. Then, go from there. If there is a problem......you will definitely find out FAST!!
Hi,
You think I am making too much out of it? I have no problem with watching these with him. It bothers me that he was alone in our bed which I had just left 1 hour earlier and was going to be home after work. Couldn't he have just waited for me? He didn't tell me either, I found it on the purchase screen of our satellite. Any other thoughts??
I'd ask him about it and try to learn more. I don't know if most husbands do it, but it is very common. I think in most instances its probably not a big deal--most men are simply more stimulated by porn than women, and most men week sexual stimulation more often than women. Perhaps he likes to masturbate to porn on days that you guys don't have sex. Frankly, I would think it would only be a problem if he does it too much and/or he shows less interest in you. I would add, too, that I think viewing porn is increasingly common among younger people of both genders.
My husband doesn't rent porn, but he has a few porn thingies on the internet (free ones). It really bothered me in the beginning, but frankly, I have come to understand it a little. (We laugh about it now.) The thing is, between work/his commute, me being tired when he gets home at 8PM, and the kids doing their best to play peek-a-boo (we personally think it's their evil ploy to keep us from giving them any more brothers for the pack), plus me wanting a little more usually than just, you know, one-two-done, I can understand how he sometimes just needs to sneak one in.
Sorry for the run-on sentence.
If he were crazed about it, constantly at it, paying huge money for seriously freaky sites, or gave any indication at all of cheating or wandering, I'd be worried, but he doesn't do any of those things.
To be 100% honest and to give way too much information, I myself have done it occasionally when hubby was exhausted in bed at 9:00. So I can understand it. There's love, and then there's need or at least desire. When they connect, that's marital or committed sex. When they don't...there's the internet. :P
Nope, a lot of husbands DON'T do it......I'm one of them. But, then again, I'm 59 years old also. Actually, I've never been attracted to porn anyway. Watched a couple of movies a few years ago (before being married), but just didn't "get into" them. My wife is very, very happy about that!! No magazines either.
As far as you go, just depends on what you can/want to tolerate. If you don't like it, talk to him and see what his reaction is. Then, go from there. If there is a problem......you will definitely find out FAST!!
I always love your answers, and the fact that you are not afraid to stand up and be counted...you wife is a very lucky woman....
I also feel the same way about it and I don't believe it has anything to do with age.
Yes, I have looked at them, but I really can't get into them.....
so, to the OP, it's all in how you look at things, I suppose....?
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