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To me lookin at pics is harmless... Unless your lookin at pics of someone else that your TALKING with. If it is random pics then who cares.
REPLY: Because :
1. Continuing to view womens body parts for your pleasure starts to reinforce in your mind that women are simply play-things and are dispensable in real life.
2. For men, it often and usually leads to addiction into greater forms of Porn because of the way a man is wired . Many mens lives have been ruined from Porn , it desensitizes you from seeing women as a healthy important fellow human being with dignity, and if you take it into a marriage then youre marital relationship is going to be hindered.
3. It will affect your real relationship(s) with women down the road in a detrimental way.
4. Once fully addicted, you will have a difficult time breaking free of it., if at all.
5. It often leads to greater perversion due to your sexual nature being out of control.
Our out of control sex saturated Culture doesnt tell you these things and other dangers associated with constant bombardment of sexual stimuli , and in fact, it lures people deeper into bondage which eventually results in emotional harm . If you find these truths rather 'repressive' that ive shared with you , that is not my motive ; Im just trying to help you make wise choices that will be beneficial for you. Heres some important info on this issue :
Dangers and Disappointments of Pornography (http://www.pureintimacy.org/gr/intimacy/understanding/a0000133.cfm - broken link)
Well, it's kind of a take off on the line from the movie Bull Durham, when she calls out the wrong name in the throes of passion and when he gets upset she says, "Would you rather I was making love to him and saying your name?"
Well, it's kind of a take off on the line full the movie Bull Durham, when she calls out the wrong name in the throes of passion and when he gets upset she says, "Would you rather I was making love to him and saying your name?"
I used to have a problem with my ex-husband looking at the magazines before internet came into the picture. After a while I realised, my feelings of inadaquacy(sp?) were my own. Most men are attracted to the female structure by nature, and I am not gay but I love the beauty of women too. I found my own attraction to men's physical attributes growing too, oh yeah, love those Texas Firefighter calendars, whew!
It's all good sister, it's not cheating! It's adrenaline! it's better for you than viagra I suppose. If you think he is not giving you what you need or desire, go to a shop and get the victoria secret scent and he might follow you everywhere!! He's in love with you, or he wouldnt be around.
Gee's, by reading a number of these Posts, it's no wonder a lot of men do this porn/half naked stuff. A lot of you are saying it's ok, "don't worry about it". This is exactly what their husbands want to hear. Keep doing this and men WILL rule the world and do whatever they want to.
I do nothing to have my wife "catch" me at......on the Internet or other. If I see a lady on the TV that I think is cute, I get my wife and ask her "Do you think she is cute and "high-maintenance"? She answers and that's the end of it. But, then again, we are older (59 and 60) and don't look at men/women like we did 20-30 years ago. She likes Harrison Ford, but doesn't "drool" over him.
Seems to me the OP is missing out on a good opportunity. The next time she sees him checkin out internet porn and she thinks this is "exciting" him, HOP ON!! Heck, twice i bought my wife front row tickets to see the Chippendale Dancers. I stayed home and waited for my "reward". Make the best of a situation i say!
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