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So I’ve been snap chatting this girl for a week, we’re friends although I’m not sure if I’m friend zoned or what the deal is. I’ll snap something flirty every now and then, the response isn’t negative, but I’m not getting anything flirty back my way, besides a good selfie.
Anyways, she’s talking about how crappy her job is today and I said “maybe once your off I can take you to dinner and you can tell me all about it”. Her response was how crappy her job was, instead of a giving me a solid answer, so I respond with “so no?” And she says “if you want to”. I told her next Saturday and she said alright.
Idk if the flirting/question just went over her head or if she was surprised/nervous. Did she say “if you want to” because I’m friend zoned or was she nervous? I mean she did agree to, assuming she doesn’t flake. Interested in hearing your opinions
Her response pretty clearly means that she's looking at a free meal with a friend. I'd try to get out of it if you are taking her out to dinner expecting anything more than that.
Her response pretty clearly means that she's looking at a free meal with a friend. I'd try to get out of it if you are taking her out to dinner expecting anything more than that.
Bingo yet again.
Don't take that girl out to a meal. In fact, time the date outside of standard meal times. Do ice cream or tea and pastries instead. It'll set you back $10 at most. You'll still get used as a meal ticket, but $10 isn't a bad price for a mildly entertaining evening out. As opposed to whatever you'd spend on dinner for two, and with someone who isn't into you to boot.
Her response pretty clearly means that she's looking at a free meal with a friend. I'd try to get out of it if you are taking her out to dinner expecting anything more than that.
Read the older threads. She's already given the OP a lap dance and "good selfies".
She may be looking for a FWB situation, but highly unlikely she's looking for a free meal with a platonic friend.
Don't take that girl out to a meal. In fact, time the date outside of standard meal times. Do ice cream or tea and pastries instead. It'll set you back $10 at most. You'll still get used as a meal ticket, but $10 isn't a bad price for a mildly entertaining evening out. As opposed to whatever you'd spend on dinner for two, and with someone who isn't into you to boot.
I will never understand the guys who TELL a girl they're going to do such and such, and then at some point between telling the girl they're going to do a thing, and the actual day of, they've decided she's not worth the effort.
OP, DON'T be a POS who SAID you'd take her out to eat, and then just get her icecream or something. Do what you said you were going to do. Hellz Bellz, YOU asked HER to dinner. Not the other way around.
Lord, it doesn't have to be Ruth's Steak House, but it sure as Hellz doesn't need to be Baskin Robbins either. Be a man of your word. You think she's going to be attracted to a man who acts like he's punishing her?
Lord, it doesn't have to be Ruth's Steak House, but it sure as Hellz doesn't need to be Baskin Robbins either. Be a man of your word. You think she's going to be attracted to a man who acts like he's punishing her?
There's a fine line between being a stand-up man and being a chump women settle down with for a stable life.
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