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That is what I call treating people like they are sex-machines or givers of foreplay.....people should not treat others like that at all.
There is a guy that works at the grocery store that always looks deep into my eyes, smiles, and looks me up and down. I think it is annoying because I don't know what his intentions are.....but I can guess he wants a hook up LOL.
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Originally Posted by SifuPhil
Back in NYC in the day I saw lots of guys hitting on women on the street. It ranged from a whistle or an air-kiss to actually stepping in front of them and blocking their way.
To me, that's low class. But that's just my opinion. Even though I was on the streets every day and saw plenty of gorgeous women I confined my pick-up attempts to, as Artsy said, those that gave a positive go-ahead sign.
Besides, I never could make those lip-smacking sounds without feeling like a jerk...
there are books out there! I read them and started practicing
I wanted to communicate better. I found out that only about 15 percent of communication is verbal! That women are much better at it then men, and a man who tries to at least bring himself up to speed with women is way ahead of the pack of neanderthals.
I was walking through a shopping mall and observed a very professional attractive African American Women was making her way through the store and a African American Man who looked like a Hip Hip Artist went up the women and said, "you are fine looking" "I want to date you" The women seemed like she had seen this all before and quickly dispatched the man who did not seem to be of the same style or social class she was.
It did make me think though because it had been a long time since I have seen someone attempt to pick someone up in a public place. In an era of video dating, speed dating, singles parties and Internet personals, it seems like the old fashioned pick up attempt is dead. Ame I wrong?
Has someone attempted to puck you up and do you think it is more common in certain ethnic groups like african americans?
I usually pick them up in pairs and just cut to the chase.
...Sure, you may be there to dance and have a few drinks, but in most cases (not all) you are also there to meet someone or hook up or something. That's part of the club scene....
Yeah, that's why I stopped going. I just wanted to go dancing with my girlfriends but it was becoming increasingly apparent that most of the blokes seemed to think I was only there because I was just waiting for them to come along and change my life!
there are books out there! I read them and started practicing
I wanted to communicate better. I found out that only about 15 percent of communication is verbal! That women are much better at it then men, and a man who tries to at least bring himself up to speed with women is way ahead of the pack of neanderthals.
*walks sadly away with his sloping forehead and dragging knuckles*
Yeah, that's why I stopped going. I just wanted to go dancing with my girlfriends but it was becoming increasingly apparent that most of the blokes seemed to think I was only there because I was just waiting for them to come along and change my life!
You mean this kind of dancing doesn't turn you on?
Yeah, that's why I stopped going. I just wanted to go dancing with my girlfriends but it was becoming increasingly apparent that most of the blokes seemed to think I was only there because I was just waiting for them to come along and change my life!
And that's why my girlfriends, sisters and I used to go out dancing on Sunday nights... because it was gay night at our favorite dance club.
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