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Old 11-23-2008, 09:25 AM
 
Location: Asheville, NC
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This drives me nuts about my DH! He is such a procrastinator and never follows through with anything. He says "I'm going to quit smoking". He starts Chantix, takes it for about 3 weeks and continues to smoke. UGGG That's just one example, but there are several others. I know he's an adult and I can't control him, but it gets me so mad!
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Old 11-23-2008, 09:42 AM
 
Location: Miami, FL
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*is currently tongue tied and scratches head*
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Old 11-23-2008, 11:46 AM
 
Location: Hot Springs, AR
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I found myself in a similar situation when I was married. It was a big reason we are no longer married.
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Old 11-23-2008, 12:02 PM
 
Location: Maryland
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"It has been my experience that folks who have no vices have very few virtues." (Abraham Lincoln)
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Old 11-23-2008, 12:03 PM
 
Location: TX
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Dump him like his bad habit.
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Old 11-23-2008, 12:04 PM
 
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Becky don't you have imperfections too?
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Old 11-23-2008, 12:05 PM
 
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How rude.

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Dump him like his bad habit.
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Old 11-23-2008, 12:30 PM
 
Location: Asheville, NC
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Becky don't you have imperfections too?
I do, but his habits are way more expensive then mine. I don't say I'm going to do this, I'm going to do that, unless I mean it. Yeah, I think he means it, but I have yet to see him follow through with any of them. I think the problem is that it is such a let down for me and it brings me down.
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Old 11-23-2008, 01:06 PM
 
Location: Tucson
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This drives me nuts about my DH! He is such a procrastinator and never follows through with anything. He says "I'm going to quit smoking". He starts Chantix, takes it for about 3 weeks and continues to smoke.
I'd imagine he does it because he never had a real desire to quit himself and just caved in to your pestering.
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Old 11-23-2008, 01:14 PM
 
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The best way to prevent other people from driving you up the wall 24/7 is to live alone. Works for me; I've never had the headache of a relationship.
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