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my boyfriend lives with his baby mama and they have 2 kids together and he say they not together like that and he say he is moving when he get his taxes back and should i stay in this relationship or move on do i believe in him and stick it out i told him by the end of jan if he still there im gone is that right.
It is very hard for me to think of a circumstance under which I would talk to a man that is still living with a woman, period. This sounds like typical BS that no woman should put up with.
Why would you want to be with a man who irresponsibly has two children with a woman to whom he won't commit? And the ONE thing you know about him is he's a liar and a cheater? Why would you SIGN UP for that?
Sure, if you want to be left with a couple of children and with no father, and be cheated-on and left while you care for HIS kids, go right ahead.
my boyfriend lives with his baby mama and they have 2 kids together and he say they not together like that and he say he is moving when he get his taxes back and should i stay in this relationship or move on do i believe in him and stick it out i told him by the end of jan if he still there im gone is that right.
Just wow. Do you really want to have to deal with this situation? I would bet that both of those kids are under 3 - this guy sounds like a loser to me. Don't you think you could do a LOT better? I do.
When my ex and I broke up, we both stayed in the same place for a while as roommates because neither one of us could afford to move. It's not necessarily a red flag. Give him the time he asked for, if he really plans to move at the end of the month, he'll be looking at potential new places. Casually monitor his progress by offering to go househunting with him. Or just ask him how it's going, not everyday just every once in a while.
Location: Pelion, South Carolina/orig. from Cape May, NJ
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Same. I didn't have parenting problems so I looked for a partner with same situation, without those dramas. Life is kind of complicated already .
Just my two cents.
Smart lady. I married a man whose ex is the devil incarnate and who, unfortunately, he spawned a child with. Every day I wonder if I made a mistake getting involved with him. I do know that if we ever break up, I will not get involved with another woman's 'baby daddy'.
After reading the title of your post and even before opening and reading this thread, I said to myself that I bet anything that here's a thread started by someone who just joined CD, will have only one post, and will more than likely not respond to or engage in any discussion on the thread that she started.
He's not your boyfriend, he's HER boyfriend and you are the "other woman". Get rid of him.
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