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If two people have known each other for a while and have sex the first time they go on an official date, it isn't the same as if they just met and jumped in bed together. At least the two people have had a chance to get to know somerhing about each other. Having sex with someone you just met on the other hand, is sleazy of both people
It depends if it's some one who's been after you for a while, like chasing after you while you are dating some one else, in my experince they'll seal the deal the first night, or in the car on the way home.
Back when I was dating it happened occasionally. But almost all of those times where when I already knew the girl. Like she was the barista at the Starbucks I would go to regularly and we'd chat a bit for several months before or maybe someone who I worked with for a while and have gotten to know pretty well before going out on a date. Or it was someone I was teaching martial arts to for a while who flirted with me for several months first or even a neighbor that Ive known for a year or more.
Bottom line is, on the times that it happened, it was always with someone I had a history with or knew for a while before the date. I never ever ever did it on the first date with someone I was just getting to know or only recently met regardless of how strong her advances were. Just not me.
I've been told that I have an "unusual effect" by some of my dates.
This has on occasion lead to things spiraling out of control probably faster than we intended.
when I was in college I would have sex and it wasn't even a date
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(Well....once in college.)
