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At this moment...I wish I was back home stripping & making some cash. Monday nights used to be my best actually as I got a lot of business guys & here I am in Europe...knocked up & miserable. The worst thing actually is that I slept on the couch on Saturday & woke up with major neck pains. After the neck pain I went back to the main bedroom yesterday but refused to sex him. BIG mistake...I should have stayed on the couch. Imma be back on the couch tonite & forever till I get what I want.
At this moment...I wish I was back home stripping & making some cash. Monday nights used to be my best actually as I got a lot of business guys & here I am in Europe...knocked up & miserable. The worst thing actually is that I slept on the couch on Saturday & woke up with major neck pains. After the neck pain I went back to the main bedroom yesterday but refused to sex him. BIG mistake...I should have stayed on the couch. Imma be back on the couch tonite & forever till I get what I want.
I feel so down right now.
Look, this is not a good situation...you can't withhold sex forever, what kind of relationship is THAT?? I told you yesterday, games are for children - it's very unbecoming for an adult to be so childish.
Either accept the man for who he is and the rules he's made about his house or start formulating a plan to get yourself home to Canada before the baby is born. Don't waste his, or your, time. I can gaurentee you, if you don't learn better communication then this your relationship will never survive.
At this moment...I wish I was back home stripping & making some cash. Monday nights used to be my best actually as I got a lot of business guys & here I am in Europe...knocked up & miserable. The worst thing actually is that I slept on the couch on Saturday & woke up with major neck pains. After the neck pain I went back to the main bedroom yesterday but refused to sex him. BIG mistake...I should have stayed on the couch. Imma be back on the couch tonite & forever till I get what I want.
I feel so down right now.
If you don't mind me asking, what else are you asking of him?
At this moment...I wish I was back home stripping & making some cash. Monday nights used to be my best actually as I got a lot of business guys & here I am in Europe...knocked up & miserable. The worst thing actually is that I slept on the couch on Saturday & woke up with major neck pains. After the neck pain I went back to the main bedroom yesterday but refused to sex him. BIG mistake...I should have stayed on the couch. Imma be back on the couch tonite & forever till I get what I want.
I feel so down right now.
Following up -
Banker,
There is quite a bit useful and intelligent advise here on this thread. Take your time and re-read each post once again. My feelings for you and your situation is this: You are not a single person anymore, you are now a package. If you are having disagreements now, you can expect many more after your baby is born. Marriage or not.
To me, a diamond engagement ring is just a symbol to flash. The pen is mightier than the sword. Get an attorney, free legal aid (?) and get something in writing about the house or DNA that he is the father. I would be expecting a future without him and being totally responsible for the baby. Please reconsider. Withholding sex is an old wives tale, immature, and nothing good comes from it. It's just a weapon and this situation (Mother's access to the house) is not severe enough for weapons.
Banker,
There is quite a bit useful and intelligent advise here on this thread. Take your time and re-read each post once again. My feelings for you and your situation is this: You are not a single person anymore, you are now a package. If you are having disagreements now, you can expect many more after your baby is born. Marriage or not.
To me, a diamond engagement ring is just a symbol to flash. The pen is mightier than the sword. Get an attorney, free legal aid (?) and get something in writing about the house or DNA that he is the father. I would be expecting a future without him and being totally responsible for the baby. Please reconsider. Withholding sex is an old wives tale, immature, and nothing good comes from it. It's just a weapon and this situation (Mother's access to the house) is not severe enough for weapons.
Thanks 2golden. I shall revisit the replies & proceed from there.
Thanks everyone for taking the time out to help me.
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