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Old 04-13-2011, 11:00 PM
 
Location: Central Ohio
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Porn can be tough. It tends to warp one's views of what is normal. I'd talk to him about it. Porn addiction is as real and as bad as any other kind of addiction. If talking to him doesn't work, try counseling.

Good luck.
Depends what it is.

Playboy magazine? He's a normal man.

What first attracted him to you wasn't your mind.

Mr. Hands Does Donkey Town? Time to get a divorce, you married a monster.
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Old 04-13-2011, 11:01 PM
 
Location: Viña del Mar, Chile
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i show pornos i watch to my girlfriend so we can do that.. turn it into something fun not sad
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Old 04-13-2011, 11:04 PM
 
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Depends what it is.

Playboy magazine? He's a normal man.

What first attracted him to you wasn't your mind.

Mr. Hands Does Donkey Town? Time to get a divorce, you married a monster.
.......hilarious
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Old 04-14-2011, 09:56 AM
 
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Depends what it is.

Playboy magazine? He's a normal man.

What first attracted him to you wasn't your mind.

Mr. Hands Does Donkey Town? Time to get a divorce, you married a monster.
Well whaddya know, my wife just gave me a copy of Mr. Hands Does Donkey Town for my birthday. I knew she was a monster.
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Old 04-15-2011, 07:59 AM
 
Location: Hoyvík, Faroe Islands
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this is the secound time ive caught him, i dont know what to do, i want to do the right thing, should i work with him, im hurt and upset, we are married with one kid and one on theway. should i leave him but what would i do?
Chastity belt so he at least cannot enjoy it.
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Old 04-16-2011, 02:35 AM
 
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I didnt read all the comments here, but your concern is a legitimate one. Looking at porn from time to time may be ok with the worlds eyes. But as a Christian, we are not of this world. I have learned through personal Bible study, and studies with other Christian groups that if you bring another person who isn't your wife/husband into your bedroom, it is adultery. Whether it be porn, videos, pictures, THOUGHTS, or the physical act of bringing another person in. All of it can cause damage in a marriage and is not ok. I am sorry you are going through this. It makes you feel betrayed but please don't leave your husband, help him work through this. Through prayer (which is VERY powerful) and making sure your husband is pleased... Do it, A LOT... Your husband can conquer this!
My ex-wife used to try and watch The Titanic in our bedroom. I was like "nuh uh! you ain't bringin Leonardo DeCaprio in our marital bedroom!"

She was a filthy sinner. Totally corrupted me
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Old 04-16-2011, 03:33 AM
 
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whats so bad about looking at porn and I'm am a woman. I do it, men of course
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Old 04-16-2011, 07:41 AM
 
Location: Holiday, FL
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whats so bad about looking at porn and I'm am a woman. I do it, men of course
Glad you brought this up.

I've been in a couple of adult stores, and I find more toys for women than for men. And women buying them....

I worked with electronics and often got involved with troubleshooting security systems in department stores. In areas where they had microphones, women discussed topics related to watching porn much more than men.....

Guys, if you REALLY want to pin women down, go on a double-date with another couple. Put a sound-activated recorder in a concealed location in the car. Then the two guys go in to get the food (McDonald's, Burger King, Hardies, your choice). Later, play the recording while the women were in the car alone. (Do not publish this recording. These days, it's illegal.) But, you could find out what women REALLY have on their minds.......

Wanna see where all the women are when "chip n dales" come to town?????

There are a number of women that watch sports like football. Notice their attention variations when certain players are shown close-up.....

I once had a teacher in school that would constantly lean her pubic area on the corner of the desk. One day, after I was out of school, I read an article about how women could conceal working themselves into an orgasm by doing things exactly like that. (She was a Catholic Nun)...

I also know how often some of these same women will complain about men looking at porn..... Someone please tell me what's the difference.
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Old 04-16-2011, 10:39 AM
 
Location: Viña del Mar, Chile
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I think the OP should make a video or take pics for her husband.
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Old 04-16-2011, 12:29 PM
 
Location: Hoyvík, Faroe Islands
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Maybe the plain vanilla sex life is what is warped. I think normal is in between and porn could be used as inspiration or clues as to what your sexuality really is.
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