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So you're on a horrible date. You have no attraction to this other person whatsoever. There's long pauses, awkward moments. To sum it all up, you are miserable. But you already committed to dinner and a movie, and your meal has not even reached the table!
Is there a way to gracefully get out of such a thing?
And yes, I've been there. And yes, it sucked.
Tell them your not feeling so good after your meal and suggest you would rather go home instead of catching a movie. Or simply tell them the truth. Your not interested you will have dinner but after would rather go home then continue with the date.
So you're on a horrible date. You have no attraction to this other person whatsoever. There's long pauses, awkward moments. To sum it all up, you are miserable. But you already committed to dinner and a movie, and your meal has not even reached the table!
Is there a way to gracefully get out of such a thing?
And yes, I've been there. And yes, it sucked.
I would be upfront and straight forward with the guy and tell either before,during or after dinner before anymore of his money is spent and tell him that you feel no attraction towards him and ask him to take you home.
So you're on a horrible date. You have no attraction to this other person whatsoever. There's long pauses, awkward moments. To sum it all up, you are miserable. But you already committed to dinner and a movie, and your meal has not even reached the table!
Is there a way to gracefully get out of such a thing?
And yes, I've been there. And yes, it sucked.
I end a bad date by saying "Don't get upset girl that's just how it goes, I don't love you hoe, I am out the door".
So you're on a horrible date. You have no attraction to this other person whatsoever. There's long pauses, awkward moments. To sum it all up, you are miserable. But you already committed to dinner and a movie, and your meal has not even reached the table!
Is there a way to gracefully get out of such a thing?
And yes, I've been there. And yes, it sucked.
if anyone is a fan of Seinfeld the bold part is really funny.....
to answer the question, you tell the date "lets get lit and make some bad decisions"
The guy started telling me about the two wives, the gal who lived with him once, bla, bla, bla.
I just wanted to say----ok you just better leave because there is no future for anything here but I suffered through the rest of the evening. God, I wish I had the guts but basically he was a nice guy so I was polite.
I say just suffer through, you never know who they know or what the future holds. What do you want them to do to you if they have no attraction to you? I would hope they would be polite.
The first date should be short anyway. Just go for a drink and if things are good THEN you can mention a movie or doing something else. You may end up talking for hours.
You can always get sick - really sick...or you can have a freind or family member call you (re: an emergency). Either way, it's "see ya, bye" time! I have used both back in my dating years and they at least get you off the hook for the evening. The alternative is to be painfully honest and just ay that things aren't working out and that the evening should be short. I tried that too once but things got emotional- and emotional is bad when it's someone that you have no desire to spend anymore time with. So the truth doesn't always set you free immediately. But the upside is that I never heard from the person again. So, longer run, I guess that honesty is the best policy.
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