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I think your over reacting. If he gets aroused in the middle of the night is he supposed to turn over and hop on you??? Guys like variety, and I dont view looking at porn as cheating, unless your computer is getting all the action rather than your SO. Now if its some sort of interactive thing thats a little different.
Yeh...thats what I do..Thats what people I have been have done. If its such torture to f me...dont f me at all. Thats how I look at it. Chicks like different things too.
I think when you are experienced enough the lure of "strange" loses its luster.
I apologize if I'm wrong pitt but wasn't you who said a man's dong size is of the upmost importance and you would laugh at a guy who has a pencil? Seem's you have no problem it being about you, so yeah sometimes a man wants it all about him. Service your man without making him feel guilty about it. A blow or a boob **** doesn't have to be foreplay to full blown sex, just please your man sometimes even if you don't get a big O out of it.
I didn't say always about him but sometimes yeah.
BTW the guy could have been more tactful about his alone time though, but then again he is being made to feel guilty about it.
Service...lol...I am no one's underling.
Dong size matters...Sorry I am not a liar.
I guess you guys now can just deal with that way of thinking...women have been putting up with it for years. Your turn!
Maybe he just wanted a quickie. or maybe he wanted you to walk in on him so you could join in. who knows!
I never turn down a quickie, so that would never, ever, be an issue. Any man of mine would know better. All he needs to do is ask, and he really doesn't even have to do that.
Well, he should. I mean, he told her already that he understood how she felt, and promised to not to do it again, without her. Yet....she found him a few days later or whatever, naked, and spread eagle, in front of the computer, making beautiful music!
I never turn down a quickie, so that would never, ever, be an issue. Any man of mine would know better. All he needs to do is ask, and he really doesn't even have to do that.
That's great ChessieMom, but you are judging OP's situation according to your own. It's great that YOU never turn down a quickie, however, we don't know how it is in OP's marriage. Maybe there is a reason behind him closing the damn door and turning on his computer. There are always 2 sides to the story.
Although, to me none of it is an issue, whether i'm in the next room or not home at all.
If we all settled for "normal" we would still be stuck in the 50's wanting death and telling our openly racist hubby we loved him as he went off to do his mistress.
And maybe if some women were not so feminist they would actually learn to what pleases a man, actually maybe they do know but rejected it then wonder WTF is wrong with men who dump them. And some of what pleases a man is being serviced by his woman.
Spare me from "going back to the 50's" and racial crap, nothing but a wrongful lame excuse and to justify the thought that "men are pigs".
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