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Okay, I said I wouldn't share personal stuff, but I do have a situation that I need you *polite* advice to. My friend's new boyfriend seemed like a nice guy. When I first started going out with them to do things, he would tell me that I looked nice or that my hair looked pretty, etc. I would say thank you and change the subject. My friend was around for these compliments and I didn't think anything of it. I just thought he was being nice.
A couple of nights ago, we were out and he was drinking and he said "your legs are so hot" "you have a nice body" and "you have nice t***s" at different times in one night while my friend wasn't around. I didn't know what to do, so I just kind of mumbled
"thanks" and walked off to talk to someone else. I feel bad because I feel like I opened myself up to these comments when he said I looked nice, etc but they seemed like nice, harmless things to say at the time. Anyway, how should I handle this? What should I say to him to let him know that his comments make me uncomfortable and should I tell my friend? Thanks for your advice.
He definately passed a line. I wouldn't do that myself personally. Some guys do what's called a bomb approach. Throw enough out there and somethings gonna stick.
I don't think a guy should comment on a woman's **** as you put it .
He definately passed a line. I wouldn't do that myself personally. Some guys do what's called a bomb approach. Throw enough out there and somethings gonna stick.
I don't think a guy should comment on a woman's **** as you put it .
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He definately passed a line. I wouldn't do that myself personally. Some guys do what's called a bomb approach. Throw enough out there and somethings gonna stick.
I don't think a guy should comment on a woman's **** as you put it.
Unless of course she's your woman.
Neither should we be flattered by it, unless he's your man. Not if you've got a healthy self-esteem.
He definately passed a line. I wouldn't do that myself personally. Some guys do what's called a bomb approach. Throw enough out there and somethings gonna stick.
I don't think a guy should comment on a woman's **** as you put it .
Unless of course she's your woman.
And that's not how I put it, its how he put it and I find it offensive that anyone would talk to me like that, much less my friend's boyfriend
The friend is a difficult one b/c it depends on your friend. For example if I were in your situation I know my best friend well enough to know she wouldn't be mad at me or do the you initiated thing whatever but other girls I know would be mad at whoever told them so it depends. But him I think I would let him know if it happened again that it is highly inappropraite to talk to you that way it makes you uncomfortable. Good luck!
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Not if you've got a healthy self-esteem.
