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And my first thought was that this guy needs to drop you like a scalding hot rock before he gets even potentially locked into a one-sided relationship loaded with expectations and outright fantasy on your end.
Lol. I'm rather surprised he hasn't dumped her already. She comes across as a nasty piece of work. I hope he lures her into bed, shags her, and dumps her. And she cries her tears out like the little girl she is.
Nothing wrong with having them meet your standards but you just said above that you want to 'train' them....so essentially you are wanting them to change for you.
nO..I said too much work for me to train them...and I wish other women to train them for me...
that's called self-esteem.. that's the way I want to be treated, what's wrong with it>? I am not asking guys to change, I just date guys who meet my standards
Yes, you are asking him to change in training them....dump him if your self esteem is too high for his standards. Do him a huge favor and move on and let him be normal.
Lol. I'm rather surprised he hasn't dumped her already. She comes across as a nasty piece of work. I hope he lures her into bed, shags her, and dumps her. And she cries her tears out like the little girl she is.
Hope it's not raining when he goes somewhere outside with you. You're liable to drown with your nose stuck up in the air so much. How things go depend on how nice of a restaurant he takes you to? It is HIS great pleasure to have you on date? I hate to tell you but dates are 50/50. I'm not talking about dutch treat or you pay once and he pays once. It should be a great pleasure for BOTH of you to have the other on a date. If this "relationship" (if that's what you want to call it) continues, all you're wanting is a little man to have wrapped around your little finger. If you keep this attitude I hope he runs as fast as he can in the opposite direction.
Our first date I let my wife pick where we went to eat. I always did that while dating. I have never had a date want to go to a "nice"' restaurant. Where we went was always nice but not the way you're talking. The man is trying to show you the type of man he is. Likes being with friends or just stay in and relax. If he's dumb enough to stick around, have fun training him!
Drop him. He is cheap or broke. Guys like that don't do "nice dinner" because they can't afford it or would rather spend money elsewhere (most likely themselves)
If he was the right guy for you he would of taken you to a nice dinner on the first date.
ok, is that too much to expect a decent dinner after 4 dates???
dinner and movie is the classic dating scene
He's taken you out 4 times, so why don't you do something for him return? Treat him with dinner, home or away, and pay for everything. I doubt you will do though, cos only real classy ladies reciprocate the effort their man has shown them and the respect he has shown them. And you seem to have total lack of respect for him. A nasty piece of work.
I'm not sure how old you are, but you are going to be in for a real wake-up call at some point.
Tried to rep ya...
My mom treated men like shyt. She always said, men are like buses.
I almost told her one time, Yeah, and the buses stop coming didn't they.
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