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Since this forum is mainly for people who are interested in discussing actual relationships as opposed to hooking up for one night stands I don't think you're going to be swamped with offers. It also makes me wonder what type of goal would be hindered by a serious relationship. It just seems to me that if you're going to spend alot of time trying to find no strings attached sex that this would be more likely to derail your goals than a solid relationship with someone you actually cared about.
a serious relationship would hinder my goals even more because it would be more money spent on the girl, less saved
although seeking nsa in the end could cost more money idk, it was jsut a simple question thats all
im determined to let NOTHING hinder my goal of moving to vegas, come hell or high water i will do it
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Since this forum is mainly for people who are interested in discussing actual relationships as opposed to hooking up for one night stands I don't think you're going to be swamped with offers. It also makes me wonder what type of goal would be hindered by a serious relationship. It just seems to me that if you're going to spend alot of time trying to find no strings attached sex that this would be more likely to derail your goals than a solid relationship with someone you actually cared about.
He didn't say anything about one night stands. He's talking about friends with benefits relationships. Which are relationaships, nonetheless.
Yep, I had one between the boyfriend I dated for many years and the man I married. My longtime boyfriend broke up with me, and I found myself without much of a social life, because two or three days a week had always been devoted to dates or hanging out with his friends. (Lesson learned.) I wanted someone to go to the movies or dinner with me, just basic dating fun stuff with no expectations. I worked with a cute guy and asked him out. I told him I wanted to have some fun, so we did. I never was much of a party girl, so I got some of that out of my system--just silly drunk karaoke stuff. He was an awesome kisser too.
a serious relationship would hinder my goals even more because it would be more money spent on the girl, less saved
although seeking nsa in the end could cost more money idk, it was jsut a simple question thats all
im determined to let NOTHING hinder my goal of moving to vegas, come hell or high water i will do it
I'm sorry, but I can't even start to figure out how you've gotten to the point where you have a cost ration set up between dates and sex. Is this too much business math, run amuck? Honestly, forget about girls for right now, and learn to quit being selfish.
I'm sorry, but I can't even start to figure out how you've gotten to the point where you have a cost ration set up between dates and sex. Is this too much business math, run amuck? Honestly, forget about girls for right now, and learn to quit being selfish.
yeah I'm still stuck on how somebody goes from: "How do I talk to girls?", to "No relationships for me, just sex."
It makes perfect sense if he's talking about farm animals.
a serious relationship would hinder my goals even more because it would be more money spent on the girl, less saved
So you're a cheapskate who just wants sex, I get it. I sort of get the drift of what you're saying but I also think that there are probably some nice women out there who are also on a tight budget who would understand your circumstances because they're in the same boat. I'm just suggesting that you could still find a good relationship without having it put you in the poor house.
Hopefully I will be moving to Las Vegas, NV later this year from Orlando. I want to stay focused on that goal and getting into a serious relationship would be a very bad idea as it could slow me down in my goal, if not stop it altogether if feelings get real serious
So as of right now I am seeking something more short term, or something physical with no commitment
People have told me there are women like that everywhere who want something short term with no commitments but ALL the women I meet want a long term serious relationship
So is what those people said about some women wanting short term relationships true? Or am I really involuntarily celibate until I move to Vegas in October?
So basically what you are looking for is sex. Yes, there are women who will have sex with "no strings attached" if that's what you are looking for. However I don't know where you would find them. Perhaps after the bar closes or one of those "adults only" locations.
So you're a cheapskate who just wants sex, I get it. I sort of get the drift of what you're saying but I also think that there are probably some nice women out there who are also on a tight budget who would understand your circumstances because they're in the same boat. I'm just suggesting that you could still find a good relationship without having it put you in the poor house.
Yeah, that wouldn't have done that for me. It's not that I wanted him to spend money on me, but I wanted to go places and he had to pay for himself.
Hopefully I will be moving to Las Vegas, NV later this year from Orlando. I want to stay focused on that goal and getting into a serious relationship would be a very bad idea as it could slow me down in my goal, if not stop it altogether if feelings get real serious
So as of right now I am seeking something more short term, or something physical with no commitment
People have told me there are women like that everywhere who want something short term with no commitments but ALL the women I meet want a long term serious relationship
So is what those people said about some women wanting short term relationships true? Or am I really involuntarily celibate until I move to Vegas in October?
We get this question on here a lot? Why is it so hard for guys to believe women go for one night-several months stands, just like guys do?
I guess guys figure women are incapable of just hookin up for a while. You are mistaken.
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