Short term relationships or friends with benefits, are there women out there who actually wants these? (dating, boyfriends)
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Hopefully I will be moving to Las Vegas, NV later this year from Orlando. I want to stay focused on that goal and getting into a serious relationship would be a very bad idea as it could slow me down in my goal, if not stop it altogether if feelings get real serious
So as of right now I am seeking something more short term, or something physical with no commitment
People have told me there are women like that everywhere who want something short term with no commitments but ALL the women I meet want a long term serious relationship
So is what those people said about some women wanting short term relationships true? Or am I really involuntarily celibate until I move to Vegas in October?
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Originally Posted by DavieJ89
Hopefully I will be moving to Las Vegas, NV later this year from Orlando. I want to stay focused on that goal and getting into a serious relationship would be a very bad idea as it could slow me down in my goal, if not stop it altogether if feelings get real serious
So as of right now I am seeking something more short term, or something physical with no commitment
People have told me there are women like that everywhere who want something short term with no commitments but ALL the women I meet want a long term serious relationship
So is what those people said about some women wanting short term relationships true? Or am I really involuntarily celibate until I move to Vegas in October?
Yes, but they typically don't want to admit it to their friends.
And when their friends find out she's "seeing someone". She will feeel the pressure to either " legitimize " the friends with benfits agreement, by turning it into a commited relationship. Unless of course she meets another man, first. Then it's just over.
I'm sure there are a few, but most women your age want boyfriends, pure and simple. The ones who truly want just sex probably just want to have sex with really really good looking men. You're not bad looking, but you're not going to attract a girl just for sex either. Sorry.
Hot women (the kind you are looking for) have a lot of options and yes they want dinner dates and romance before they are going to "put out". It is called "put out" for a reason. Because she is in demand and she knows it.
And if you want to bang fugly you can find that all day long and twice on Sundays, no committment.
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I'm sure there are a few, but most women your age want boyfriends, pure and simple. The ones who truly want just sex probably just want to have sex with really really good looking men. You're not bad looking, but you're not going to attract a girl just for sex either. Sorry.
I don't know about that. I've seen both unattractive men and women ....attract others for that kind of relationship. Seems like you're caught in the bubble of " Beautiful People Only". Good luck with that.
I don't know about that. I've seen both unattractive men and women ....attract others for that kind of relationship. Seems like you're caught in the bubble of " Beautiful People Only". Good luck with that.
I disagree, I think he or she is correct. For "no strings attached" sex, or friends with benefits, or whatever you want to call it, men typically settle for someone less physically attractive than they're used to, women typically use it as an opportunity to screw someone attractive who would never consider dating them.
If that's what you want to do, then go for it. In my experience these usually arise if the relationship fails but the two decide they still want to have sex. I, personally, have never seen anything good come from an arrangement like this...but to each their own.
Since this forum is mainly for people who are interested in discussing actual relationships as opposed to hooking up for one night stands I don't think you're going to be swamped with offers. It also makes me wonder what type of goal would be hindered by a serious relationship. It just seems to me that if you're going to spend alot of time trying to find no strings attached sex that this would be more likely to derail your goals than a solid relationship with someone you actually cared about.
Odds are against you, but there are adult websites for these types of "relationships".
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