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Women can be openly bisexual and men still want to be with them with few reservations. But if a man says he is bisexual (or even bicurious) women won't come anywhere near him (especially in the black community.)
Now I personally feel this is a double standard. I wonder why this stigma against bisexual men exists. I know the STDs play a role.
(Disclaimer: I'm a straight male.)
No mystery here. Men enjoy watching women together. Women, (at least the great majority) definitely do not enjoy watching men together. And speaking as a straight woman, I don't care to see either. Ick.
Sure we do, but most of you guys are too insecure in your sexuality to swing that way unless you're already gay.
Insecure? Because I'm not attracted to the same thing you are, that makes me insecure? Yeah. Right. Sorry bub. I'm as secure as they get. I'm simply not turned on by women parts or gay men getting each other off. Pretty repulsive to me actually.
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Women can be openly bisexual and men still want to be with them with few reservations. But if a man says he is bisexual (or even bicurious) women won't come anywhere near him (especially in the black community.)
Now I personally feel this is a double standard. I wonder why this stigma against bisexual men exists. I know the STDs play a role.
Not true. I view gay porn exclusively, and as it turns out a large percentage of my female friends like gay porn too.
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Originally Posted by Erika♥Chris♥Lexi
I'll join that club I won't watch male/female porn, either. I much prefer guy/guy. It's more exciting to me, I don't know.
But, the double standard doesn't hold true for my own feelings. I'm completely fine with any type of couple- I'm married (I'm a female, married to man).. but if I weren't, dating a bi-curious or bi-sexual man wouldn't phase me in the least, nor deter me from dating him at *all*.
That said, my 2 best friends are gay. (and engaged to each other). I also have a very close lesbian friend, and many bi-sexual. So, to me, it's ... nothing. Just life. That could be why it wouldn't phase me..
I get (and am getting) turned on thinking of girls who get turned on by ANY kind of porn. I don't know, but a girl that likes sex and can be turned on by watching it gets me going for some reason.
Women can be openly bisexual and men still want to be with them with few reservations. But if a man says he is bisexual (or even bicurious) women won't come anywhere near him (especially in the black community.)
Now I personally feel this is a double standard. I wonder why this stigma against bisexual men exists. I know the STDs play a role.
(Disclaimer: I'm a straight male.)
The reason for this is because men seek romance and sex in a relationship more often, and women seem to be more focused on seeking a mate as an investment. Women look at relationships more long term, and do not necessarily see men as sexual, but more as a symbol of added security, particularly if women are thinking of having a family.
Honestly though, I think men are more intune with their orientation than women. Men who state that they are bi usually lean gay; many are in denial. Yes, there are straight guys that will accept an advance from another guy, as in a "quickie" but the idea of a guy being equally attracted to girls as he is to guys, I don't believe it exists.
Women can be openly bisexual and men still want to be with them with few reservations. But if a man says he is bisexual (or even bicurious) women won't come anywhere near him (especially in the black community.)
Now I personally feel this is a double standard. I wonder why this stigma against bisexual men exists. I know the STDs play a role.
(Disclaimer: I'm a straight male.)
I have at least 1 bisexual exboyfriend that I know of. It doesn't bother me in the least. I have also been in a couple of ongoing threesome relationships and am pretty open about these kinds of things. That being said, I have been happily married for 10 years now. My husband and I fantasize about other women together. It's nothing we would act upon... just in good fun. He jokes about me being 25% lesbian.
I'm sure there are plenty of women who are okay with dating bisexual men.
Women can be openly bisexual and men still want to be with them with few reservations. But if a man says he is bisexual (or even bicurious) women won't come anywhere near him (especially in the black community.)
Now I personally feel this is a double standard. I wonder why this stigma against bisexual men exists. I know the STDs play a role.
(Disclaimer: I'm a straight male.)
Well, I think that's a bit of a generalization.
I know two bisexual guys who are currently dating women, and both couples are perfectly happy and secure in their relationships.
But I DO know where you're coming from. I have met many women who say that men "should choose" one sex and refuse to do anything with a guy that is bi.
I wonder if it has anything to do with fear of STD's? Regardless, I think it's stereotyping and that's why there is a term used loosely called Bi-phobia.
Really? Exclusively guy on guy? That's interesting. I'm pretty openly sexual and so are most of my friends and I don't know any women who watch male gay porn even regularly, much less exclusively. I'm not doubting you, I just find it interesting
It probably happens more often than you know, and you just aren't hearing about it. Most people will not admit to enjoying male on male porn as freely because it is considered more taboo, whereas the whole female on female thing is so widely accepted it is almost something to brag about.
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I won't watch male/female porn, either. I much prefer guy/guy. It's more exciting to me, I don't know.
