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Old 05-31-2010, 08:53 PM
 
Location: Home of the best seafood
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If a man is proud to be around you, then he will show it!
Old flings....I would think that he would draw you closer, not walk farther away... Yikes!
I think he still has issues with this ex...he needs to deal with this problem, before marriage! You don`t need it!
she isn't his ex, she's just someone who likes him, but I can only go by what he tells me.
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Old 05-31-2010, 08:56 PM
 
Location: Sunny Florida
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No, I wouldn't marry a man who walked ahead of me and pretended he wasn't with me. That is just wrong on so many levels.
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Old 05-31-2010, 08:56 PM
 
Location: Up above the world so high!
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what makes u think I'm still in High school, I"m a grown woman 29 years old, at what age do u think some people stop acting immature????

I said you guys "sound" like you are in high school, not that I thought you were. Reread what you wrote - it sounds like something a 16 year old would write. And if your guy is really the way you describe him he's a divorce waiting to happen.

Like I said - TAKE YOUR TIME. When the right guy comes along YOU WILL KNOW IT and the idea of being separated from him for even a day, much less the rest of your life, will be inconceiveable to you. You'll be in a completely different place than you are right now and will have NO NEED to ask the question you asked when you started this thread.
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Old 05-31-2010, 09:06 PM
 
Location: Home of the best seafood
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I guess
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Old 05-31-2010, 09:22 PM
 
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I have to agree with loves, this whole situation sounds awfully immature.

Why would you even contemplate marrying someone who acts like that?
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Old 05-31-2010, 09:59 PM
 
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but, I don't know if I want to get married to him because he is way to flirtatious around me. He is extremly too friendly towards every female who happens to come around us. He is always in there face, I really think that he enjoys female attention. I dont really like this about him, but he has always been this way. Also, there is one female in particular who I know that likes him, and she sent him a facebook request twice and rejected her both times beacuse that is what he told me. However we saw her out in public and he tried to walk ahead of me like we weren't together, I mean what is that about? This same female, everytime we happen to see her out somewhere, he acts funny when she is around. He told me that she likes him, but I don't know what to think. I don't want to marry a man who can't seem to act like a real man when certain women come around, it is such a turn off.

Anyone been through something like this? Would you still marry someone like this? What say you?

My husband does this. Its one of the issues we have. A man that truely cares for you would not do this or act like this around you if there was not something that has happened between them.
If you have any questions about your relationship, then take your time. If he is truely "the one" then he will wait.
If I knew now, what I did then with my own relationship, I dont think I would have married my husband because of a few warning signs that tore me up.
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Old 05-31-2010, 10:00 PM
 
Location: Midwest
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You answered your own question

The right man will be so proud and happy to be with you and nobody else will be able to hold a candle to you. This guy is very needy and wants a whole lot of female attention. He is in NO position to marry anyone. Save yourself a whole lot of heartache and RUNNNNNNNNNNNNN!


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but, I don't know if I want to get married to him because he is way to flirtatious around me. He is extremly too friendly towards every female who happens to come around us. He is always in there face, I really think that he enjoys female attention. I dont really like this about him, but he has always been this way. Also, there is one female in particular who I know that likes him, and she sent him a facebook request twice and rejected her both times beacuse that is what he told me. However we saw her out in public and he tried to walk ahead of me like we weren't together, I mean what is that about? This same female, everytime we happen to see her out somewhere, he acts funny when she is around. He told me that she likes him, but I don't know what to think. I don't want to marry a man who can't seem to act like a real man when certain women come around, it is such a turn off.

Anyone been through something like this? Would you still marry someone like this? What say you?
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Old 06-01-2010, 12:52 AM
 
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Marriage is to complicated of a proposition to enter into if u have doubts. Wait until u r sure.
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Old 06-01-2010, 12:55 AM
 
Location: southern california
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be forcast of future behavior is present.
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Old 06-01-2010, 03:03 AM
 
Location: The cupboard under the sink
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Whether your paranoia is justified or not, marriage is about trust.

You obviously don't trust him.
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