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Old 05-31-2010, 08:33 PM
 
Location: Home of the best seafood
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but, I don't know if I want to get married to him because he is way to flirtatious around me. He is extremly too friendly towards every female who happens to come around us. He is always in there face, I really think that he enjoys female attention. I dont really like this about him, but he has always been this way. Also, there is one female in particular who I know that likes him, and she sent him a facebook request twice and rejected her both times beacuse that is what he told me. However we saw her out in public and he tried to walk ahead of me like we weren't together, I mean what is that about? This same female, everytime we happen to see her out somewhere, he acts funny when she is around. He told me that she likes him, but I don't know what to think. I don't want to marry a man who can't seem to act like a real man when certain women come around, it is such a turn off.

Anyone been through something like this? Would you still marry someone like this? What say you?
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Old 05-31-2010, 08:36 PM
 
Location: Pa
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but, I don't know if I want to get married to him because he is way to flirtatious around me. He is extremly too friendly towards every female who happens to come around us. He is always in there face, I really think that he enjoys female attention. I dont really like this about him, but he has always been this way. Also, there is one female in particular who I know that likes him, and she sent him a facebook request twice and rejected her both times beacuse that is what he told me. However we saw her out in public and he tried to walk ahead of me like we weren't together, I mean what is that about? This same female, everytime we happen to see her out somewhere, he acts funny when she is around. He told me that she likes him, but I don't know what to think. I don't want to marry a man who can't seem to act like a real man when certain women come around, it is such a turn off.

Anyone been through something like this? Would you still marry someone like this? What say you?
Nope, there is friendly and a manwh***.
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Old 05-31-2010, 08:37 PM
 
Location: Orlando
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when reading this i couldnt help but think the liking was as much on his side as this other womans. I may be off base. but we see our traits in others.

Who knows he may be the best thing since sliced bread but I suspect your reservations are real and I'd trust my instints. Good luck. either way it will be a learning experience.
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Old 05-31-2010, 08:40 PM
 
Location: colorado
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but, I don't know if I want to get married to him because he is way to flirtatious around me. He is extremly too friendly towards every female who happens to come around us. He is always in there face, I really think that he enjoys female attention. I dont really like this about him, but he has always been this way. Also, there is one female in particular who I know that likes him, and she sent him a facebook request twice and rejected her both times beacuse that is what he told me. However we saw her out in public and he tried to walk ahead of me like we weren't together, I mean what is that about? This same female, everytime we happen to see her out somewhere, he acts funny when she is around. He told me that she likes him, but I don't know what to think. I don't want to marry a man who can't seem to act like a real man when certain women come around, it is such a turn off.

Anyone been through something like this? Would you still marry someone like this? What say you?
I see heart-ache coming along if you marry this man...
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Old 05-31-2010, 08:40 PM
 
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but, I don't know if I want to get married to him because
That you don't know is enough for me to advise you not to. Doesn't matter why. Your gut is talking. Listen to it.
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Old 05-31-2010, 08:43 PM
 
Location: Up above the world so high!
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but, I don't know if I want to get married to him because he is way to flirtatious around me. He is extremly too friendly towards every female who happens to come around us. He is always in there face, I really think that he enjoys female attention. I dont really like this about him, but he has always been this way. Also, there is one female in particular who I know that likes him, and she sent him a facebook request twice and rejected her both times beacuse that is what he told me. However we saw her out in public and he tried to walk ahead of me like we weren't together, I mean what is that about? This same female, everytime we happen to see her out somewhere, he acts funny when she is around. He told me that she likes him, but I don't know what to think. I don't want to marry a man who can't seem to act like a real man when certain women come around, it is such a turn off.

Anyone been through something like this? Would you still marry someone like this? What say you?

You are obviously too young to even think about marriage. You both sound like you're still in high school.

Take your time - when it's right you won't even be asking questions like this.
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Old 05-31-2010, 08:43 PM
 
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Please do not do this to yourself.
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Old 05-31-2010, 08:44 PM
 
Location: Tennessee
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If a man is proud to be around you, then he will show it!
Old flings....I would think that he would draw you closer, not walk farther away... Yikes!
I think he still has issues with this ex...he needs to deal with this problem, before marriage! You don`t need it!
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Old 05-31-2010, 08:51 PM
 
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If it bothers you then no, I wouldnt marry him because he won't change.
My SO is a HUGE flirt, but he does make it a point when I am with him that the women know he is taken. It doesnt really bother me. We actually joke about it.
I also have a good girlfriend who is a HUGE flirt and her SO knows it. She is up front with every guy she is with that this is who she is. She won't cheat but loves to flirt.
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Old 05-31-2010, 08:52 PM
 
Location: Home of the best seafood
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You are obviously too young to even think about marriage. You both sound like you're still in high school.

Take your time - when it's right you won't even be asking questions like this.
what makes u think I'm still in High school, I"m a grown woman 29 years old, at what age do u think some people stop acting immature????
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