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Why would they want to do that? I mean taking that challenge especially in retirement. I did that in my early 20s, but certainly would not do that in retirement. I was glad my sister bought a house near me because yesterday I had to go over her house for an hour, people were coming to her house to fix things and she’s at work.
Why would they want to do that? I mean taking that challenge especially in retirement. I did that in my early 20s, but certainly would not do that in retirement. I was glad my sister bought a house near me because yesterday I had to go over her house for an hour, people were coming to her house to fix things and she’s at work.
Tons of people move after they stop working. They're living in a particular area only because of their jobs or for family who is no longer around. They may have "bucket list" destinations or prefer a change in the climate. You've never heard of relocating after retirement?
I suspect that retirement is a lot "easier" if you're married, have a family with whom you're very close or involved, or even a group of friends who keep you busy... I'd be more interested in hearing about the challenges of -- like the original poster -- single and childless people and perhaps those relocating to a new area where they don't know anyone. There is a challenge!
Having been/done all of the above, I think I've covered my move and changes (and health issues) quite completely! I do usually forget that I might be an outlier in those things. I didn't worry or consider it all around 50, although I knew I had a pension coming if I kept slogging it out where I was. I think my consideration then was, did I want to travel? And realizing, while working, that I was just too tired to look forward to it, and the only travel I was doing while working (when I had money and time off) was horseback vacations out West (Montana, Colorado, Utah) and found I really just wanted to move West in retirement and ride horses. Not an old-age plan but there it is.
It’s ok to be bored sometimes. I have no specific goals except to keep this body going for at least another 30 years. That’s a long time. So I have to do lots of physical activities. As for my brain, I do plan to take as many classes as possible, but no more than 1-2 classes per term, one of them is exercise of some sort. I met a retiree and she said she has taken more than 200 credits already. That’s my plan. No hurry though.
Isn't college now prohibitively expensive for most retirees? They used to offer free classes (audit only) to those over 65 at my local university. Wonder if they still do? I would love to sit in on medical school!
Isn't college now prohibitively expensive for most retirees? They used to offer free classes (audit only) to those over 65 at my local university. Wonder if they still do? I would love to sit in on medical school!
They have OLI classes, which is about $40 a class or to register, never done it. They also have emeritus classes for retiree. I take regular classes, about $46 per unit. It’s expensive but it’s manageable, many hours of therapy for me. Otherwise I might have to post to the I’m depressed thread.
Tons of people move after they stop working. They're living in a particular area only because of their jobs or for family who is no longer around. They may have "bucket list" destinations or prefer a change in the climate. You've never heard of relocating after retirement?
I’ve read about it here, but don’t really know anybody specific.
OP, I suggest less caffeine. Learn to relax. Since you are already into yoga, spend some time meditating and learning to just "be" without having to "do" all the time. When you go hiking are you all about making it to the summit as quickly as possible, or do you slow down, stop, sit on the side of the stream and just watch the water swirl while you listen to the sounds of nature? Retirement can be as go-go as you want, but you shouldn't feel you have to fill 100% of your time. Are you comfortable at home alone? Do you enjoy your own company? Have you taken the time to read some of the great works, and really ponder the meanings of the stories and sought to find parallels in your life and those of others? I've found so much that I love when I'm home alone, new styles of music, poetry, etc. The world is at our fingertips now with the internet. One can study or enjoy almost anything they want. In retirement we finally have the time to do, or not do, as we please. Your OP may me feel like you are unhappy unless you are constantly busy.
They have OLI classes, which is about $40 a class or to register, never done it. They also have emeritus classes for retiree. I take regular classes, about $46 per unit. It’s expensive but it’s manageable, many hours of therapy for me. Otherwise I might have to post to the I’m depressed thread.
Are you working toward a degree? I've always loved learning, so would love to go back to school, but I'm certainly not going to spend my life's savings on it.
I appreciate any thoughts you may have on how to get some direction, thanks!
I would think our entire lives should be meaningful, not just our retirement. But, the direction you take in retirement can only be found by you. We can't tell you how it should go. Consider it to be your challenge.
My wife and I are several years into retirement. She has taken several dozen semester long courses at the local University through the OLLI program. These are "lifelong" learning experiences for retirees and are not for those looking to earn a degree. I was in OLLI about 3 years and took 24 semester long courses, primarily in photography, history and the arts. Both of us have been talking about auditing regular University courses. There is a minimal charge but also only some courses are available for audit. Auditing must be done with the professor's approval when there are vacancies in the class.
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But, the direction you take in retirement can only be found by you. We can't tell you how it should go. Consider it to be your challenge.
