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Traveling is great, but for some reason it always feels better before and after the trip, never during it
Anyone feel the same, like sometimes traveling just too irritating when going to a place you never been.
I can't agree more, but more importantly is how you feel after the trip.
I can't tell you how many trips I've taken, entailing lots stress and work, endless researching before leaving, too many irritating moments, much frustration (like not being able to find a rest room when you need one),
and moments where I almost prematurely ended the trip and flew back home and to be happy and content.
But it's my insatiable curiosities that will never allow me to forgo another opportunity to satsify my curiosities.
After many a trip, or even during a stressful trip, I grow this big smile and sigh: Ah! This is the very, very last trip I'll ever, ever take again! The tourism industry can starve before I'll take another one!
And yet, I'm only back but a week or two, and I'm busy planning my next masochistic trip.
Ah, how I love that saying: Nothing brings you closer to eternity than travel.
I usually feel pretty darned satisfied after a trip--sometimes I dread seeing it end.
I do plan ahead.
However, no matter how much a person plans, remaining flexible is important.
We had a train ticket problem in France last spring, and we just had to deal with it, hope for the best, and buy another.
Everything turned out just fine--our refund came in the mail several weeks after we returned.
Sometimes I feel like I have never really been tested on a trip. I've dealt with pickpocket attempts, guys harassing me, sickness, train strikes, near-muggings, and a strange interlude in Guatemala that might have been worse than it actually seemed. But I always seem to glide through these situations.
We'll be in New Orleans for Halloween. I'll see how we handle that one.
I usually feel pretty darned satisfied after a trip--sometimes I dread seeing it end.
I do plan ahead.
However, no matter how much a person plans, remaining flexible is important.
We had a train ticket problem in France last spring, and we just had to deal with it, hope for the best, and buy another.
Everything turned out just fine--our refund came in the mail several weeks after we returned.
Sometimes I feel like I have never really been tested on a trip. I've dealt with pickpocket attempts, guys harassing me, sickness, train strikes, near-muggings, and a strange interlude in Guatemala that might have been worse than it actually seemed. But I always seem to glide through these situations.
I can't tell you how many times I've nearly cried on the flight/ride home, because I didn't want the trip to end! Sure, things happen, but I've never had them bother me. Life (and the trip) is just too short to freak out, it's not worth it. I've always just gone with the flow, did what I had to, and it all worked out.
I'd say that if things like that truly stress you out that much, you should really consider travel agents and tour programs. A more structured and guided trip should be easier to handle.
I usually feel pretty darned satisfied after a trip--sometimes I dread seeing it end.
I do plan ahead.
However, no matter how much a person plans, remaining flexible is important.
We had a train ticket problem in France last spring, and we just had to deal with it, hope for the best, and buy another.
Everything turned out just fine--our refund came in the mail several weeks after we returned.
Sometimes I feel like I have never really been tested on a trip. I've dealt with pickpocket attempts, guys harassing me, sickness, train strikes, near-muggings, and a strange interlude in Guatemala that might have been worse than it actually seemed. But I always seem to glide through these situations.
We'll be in New Orleans for Halloween. I'll see how we handle that one.
I'm green with envy..sure hope you have a great time & post some pics when you get back
Have some coffee & beignets for me will ya
I can't tell you how many times I've nearly cried on the flight/ride home, because I didn't want the trip to end! Sure, things happen, but I've never had them bother me. Life (and the trip) is just too short to freak out, it's not worth it. I've always just gone with the flow, did what I had to, and it all worked out.
I'd say that if things like that truly stress you out that much, you should really consider travel agents and tour programs. A more structured and guided trip should be easier to handle.
I'm like you - the end of the trip, and after the trip are very sad and disappointing for me. The OP definitely is not a real "traveler", IMO. Real travel-lovers enjoy actually traveling. Real travelers plan to avoid the "hassles" and learn how to handle whatever problems arise. Real travelers also learn how to cope with and roll with setbacks.
Your recommendation to the OP to take a guided tour is a great one; they are perfect for people who want to travel but aren't very good at doing it themselves or handling the unexpected.
It's funny, when I heard people say how they like "after the trip" better than the trip itself, I just couldn't relate. If you like being home more, then why even travel??? I get sad on my last day of a trip, knowing I'm going home to work and "real life".
To me, the trip is more fun before and during... BEFORE, because the researching, planning, and creating of the trip is so fun, and I stretch it out for months. The anticipation is exciting. Planning the trip is ALMOST better than the trip itself. And DURING the trip, well the trip itself is the main event! It should be THE best part of traveling, and for me, it is. I'm on a natural high, the entire time I travel, especially if it's for pleasure, but even when it's a business trip.
Because like you I used priceline and hotwire plus hotels.com. This trip was a bit spontaneous, but Moderator cut: name calling I usually do plan ahead.
However, I have found very good deals on priceline many times the day of. I dont do all that much research on hotels as I usually bid, and am not really too picky. Internet, fridge/micro, and location are most important and I usually get what I want, when I want it, with no headache. Not in this city though. Everything was 120 bucks and up. I've gotten the Extended Stay many times, along with others that were 'fully loaded' the same day I purchased.
This city is a bit different. Hotels here are pricier than I imagined, although there are some sparse good deals. I found them, yes...but it just wasnt as quick as I expected.
just how far in advance did you plan?
Priceline is too risky.
I use expedia and or hotels.com or I do internet research way ahead of time and sometimes I book directly with the hotel,airline,etc---whatever is the best price.
What city did you find to be so troublesome? Just curious
I love planning my trips...........exciting! By the time it's travel day I have everything in place. If and when unexpected issues arise--I deal with them in a way so as to not ruin my trip. Go with the flow........
On a no time to plan trip I would expect the unexpected and roll with it.......
If you've got a corp. Amex, use their travel desk to have them make last minute arrangements, toll-free number and they do all the work for you - have to use this a few times due to missed flights, other delays, etc.
What city did you find to be so troublesome? Just curious
I love planning my trips...........exciting! By the time it's travel day I have everything in place. If and when unexpected issues arise--I deal with them in a way so as to not ruin my trip. Go with the flow........
On a no time to plan trip I would expect the unexpected and roll with it.......
I'd really like to know what city this is as well. Some friends and I from work decided to take a quick trip to NYC one weekend. Hotels looked pretty high online and we'd even tried priceline to some extent, but no luck getting anything as cheaply as we were hoping. We decided to just go and let it ride until we got there, thinking could get something cheaper on the day as a last minute booking. Once there we started making phone calls and the cheapest we could find in Manhattan was a room meant for 3 people (we had 5) for $135/night. Even hostiles in Manhattan are way over priced. Finally we just had to take it, and sneak the other two people in.
The place was pretty much a dump, but I can tell you it was a lesson learned. If the internet says prices are high in a city like New York, I would never again go there without a booking already made. Ironically the week after, prices dropped about 20%, so flexibility in plans can help.
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