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Old 11-23-2021, 10:00 PM
 
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In China, those who don't have a college degree can hardly get a "good man" (according to their criteria). Usually men with advanced education won't consider women who never attended college.

However, some college girls do that too...not a lot but there are some.
Yes, of course, but it also depends on many factors. But as a man, if they didn't have a college degree, but have saved up alot of money, they would still prefer a woman with more money. Men don't want to take care of her and her family if they are poor. One family member getting sick would require money from the man side of the family. It's all about points. Women want men with money, men want young pretty women, and if he has to choose between 2 women, and everything is equal, he would probably choose the women with more money if he has that choice.

There are too many factors, education is one of them. I know of a friends friend in China that has a degree, but he is short, bald. Other women with college degrees won't look at him, he has been lead on many times, and he finally married a woman without a degree. He doesn't make much.

The whole issue of prostitution in China is huge. Desperate men without wives can get their fix without dating, but I do feel bad for the men who will marry those women not knowing their past. It's not like there's a stamp on woman's forehead saying they're a sex worker. Notch count matters to good men who worked hard and wants to the best wife possible. A former prostitute who saved and can buy her own flat in a small city, definitely has more power to get a better off man compared to a woman who worked hard but no money.

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Old 11-24-2021, 05:34 AM
 
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Old 11-24-2021, 08:22 AM
 
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And the failed one child policy in China. Babies were abandoned on the doorsteps of orphanages across the country or even at busy city intersections. This was the time when there was a wave of children being adopted by families in the US and Europe.

There’s some pretty remarkable stories coming out of this story because of advanced DNA techniques. Matchups of Chinese twins with one winding up in America and another in Europe. Even finding parents and reunions with them to find their roots.
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Old 11-25-2021, 12:46 PM
 
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And the failed one child policy in China. Babies were abandoned on the doorsteps of orphanages across the country or even at busy city intersections. This was the time when there was a wave of children being adopted by families in the US and Europe.
It happens, but not as often as some media suggest. I have never seen such thing in my life. I heard about them from news, but none of my friends or relatives has ever seen any.
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Old 11-25-2021, 07:36 PM
 
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It happens, but not as often as some media suggest. I have never seen such thing in my life. I heard about them from news, but none of my friends or relatives has ever seen any.
I've never met anyone who contracted covid and no one I know has, either. I've only heard about them on the news. Therefore covid is not a problem.

You need to try a little harder with that logic.
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Old 11-25-2021, 11:43 PM
 
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I've never met anyone who contracted covid and no one I know has, either. I've only heard about them on the news. Therefore covid is not a problem.

You need to try a little harder with that logic.
Covid has relatively detailed statistics. We have an idea how many people were infected and died...
What a stupid comparison. I'm not surprised though, based on my observation of your cognitive capability.

Go ask any person from China if they have seen anything like that. Good luck.
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Old 11-30-2021, 07:16 AM
 
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It happens, but not as often as some media suggest. I have never seen such thing in my life. I heard about them from news, but none of my friends or relatives has ever seen any.
go to a hospital or nursing home and see for yourself
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Old 11-30-2021, 07:44 AM
 
Location: Phoenix
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The Muslims and Mormons allow for multiple wives, perhaps the solution would be for wives to be allowed multiple husbands.
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Old 11-30-2021, 08:51 AM
 
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The Muslims and Mormons allow for multiple wives, perhaps the solution would be for wives to be allowed multiple husbands.
If I am following the cultural pass the name argument then we are talking about the handmaid's tale on steroids. Where fertile woman pass the name for one family and then moves on to the next as long as she can keep breeding.

It is almost as bad if she is just doing duty so more men can experience sex with someone who is nominally not sex worker
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Old 11-30-2021, 09:06 AM
 
Location: Salt Lake City
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The Muslims and Mormons allow for multiple wives, perhaps the solution would be for wives to be allowed multiple husbands.
If, when you use the word "Mormon," you are speaking of members of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints (the 16-million member worldwide church headquartered in Salt Lake City, Utah), you are absolutely wrong. Any member of the Church who is found to be in a polygamous marriage is promptly excommunicated from the Church. There are no exceptions.
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