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Old 06-20-2015, 06:54 PM
 
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That's why people in California/the West Coast get so furious if you approach them in public to ask them a question or make niceties ... they assume you want something from them or want to harm them, because that's the only reason THEY would ever approach a stranger.
I can truly say I've never experienced this in my entire life. Some people are more outgoing and friendly than others, sure, but I've never had anyone become "furious" because I spoke to them.
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Old 06-20-2015, 07:48 PM
 
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I can truly say I've never experienced this in my entire life. Some people are more outgoing and friendly than others, sure, but I've never had anyone become "furious" because I spoke to them.
Well furious is an exaggeration, but I've had people scowl and look severely annoyed for very innocuous, non-intrusive things like opening a door for them. I think it's a distinctly American thing, not that it happens often everywhere in the country.
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Old 06-20-2015, 07:54 PM
 
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I'm not saying EVERYONE in California is like this, but I've noticed if you say anything critical about California, aside from the typical ranting about illegal Mexicans or socialists, people will shun you or resent you for your "negative attitude". Whether it's the drought, the poor schools, the unaffordability of housing and everything else. It seems like if you don't think California is Heaven on Earth people think you are crazy there.

Why? I have friends from states in the South, Midwest and Northeast and while most of them have some pride in where they live and still support their sports teams, they are willing to admit that their home state sucks or is below par in some regards. One of my good friends is from Indianapolis and he's more than willing to admit that Indiana kind of sucks in many ways. I have another friend from Ohio who also hated it there even though he is still a fan of all the Cleveland teams.

Californians on the other hand seem to feel a need to be #1 in everything. It's really like "America's America".

People from the south aren't as educated and are more easily controlled by Govt. The Govt can shut these sheeps up by simply waving a flag and promoting Patriotism. People from the South and East Cost are also the most racist and hateful people you will ever meet.

CA, the most populated and most diverse State in the US.... If there is one thing we aren't #1 in is HATE. The only people crying about CA are Republicans and idiots who never visited CA and depend on the Retardican controlled media for their bias opinion on CA.

http://users.humboldt.edu/mstephens/hate/hate_map.html

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Old 06-20-2015, 07:56 PM
 
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Well Cali is #1 & the criticism is really jealousy.
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Old 06-20-2015, 08:27 PM
 
Location: Boulder Creek, CA
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We're not really questioning why CA gets more criticism than Indiana or Ohio, are we?

Try this: If your state is one that is ever on peoples' minds, then people pay attention. if not, then no.
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Old 06-20-2015, 08:41 PM
 
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People from the south aren't as educated and are more easily controlled by Govt. The Govt can shut these sheeps up by simply waving a flag and promoting Patriotism. People from the South and East Cost are also the most racist and hateful people you will ever meet.

CA, the most populated and most diverse State in the US.... If there is one thing we aren't #1 in is HATE. The only people crying about CA are Republicans and idiots who never visited CA and depend on the Retardican controlled media for their bias opinion on CA.

Hate Map
That just looks like a population map.
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Old 06-20-2015, 09:23 PM
 
Location: Las Vegas
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Yeah, California is very much a "me" culture and people are generally only interested in what they can take from you. That's why people in California/the West Coast get so furious if you approach them in public to ask them a question or make niceties ... they assume you want something from them or want to harm them, because that's the only reason THEY would ever approach a stranger.
This post is a pretty good summation of why Californians get annoyed with people criticizing their state. Your whole post was just base stereotyping and bashing of the people and the state without any facts just a bunch of hyperbole. I've never had anyone get "furious" at me for talking to them. Maybe you are the problem? Maybe Californians don't get mad at EVERYONE who criticizes their state, but maybe people like you are the problem?
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Old 06-20-2015, 09:32 PM
 
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Why should the COL in CA be so high? Note; weather and location have nothing to do with it. So why is it so high?
That is pretty well explained here:

Why Middle-Class Americans Can't Afford to Live in Liberal Cities - The Atlantic
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Old 06-20-2015, 09:48 PM
 
Location: Sylmar, a part of Los Angeles
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The Democrat party has destroyed this once great state.
Oregonians defend their state.
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Old 06-20-2015, 10:58 PM
 
Location: California
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OP, you need to look no further than the absurd responses in the santa barbara thread. People are so defensive
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