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Old 06-05-2016, 06:52 AM
 
Location: USA
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So that means everyone has had a homosexual though at one time or another,but the difference is that homosexuals committed the homosexual act?



What i am asking is that having a gay thought does not make you gay?
Reminds me of when my older sister and I were discussing this topic back in my dark years as a fundamentalist, self-righteously confirming to each other how sinful homosexuality is. And she said the same thing, essentially. She said, "We've all had those thoughts. I had a huge crush on my best friend all through highschool and I could easily have gone that way. Any of us could. That doesn't make it right."

I was flabbergasted. I had never, ever in my life had a crush on a girl or any thoughts of wanting to be with a girl. I was as boy crazy as they come. I didn't have the heart to tell her that. But, no, we don't all have same sex attraction.
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Old 06-05-2016, 07:19 AM
 
Location: New England
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I was at my brothers house just under a week ago and his wife had made him a huge Rhubarb pie, for the rest of the week I was thinking about that Rhubarb pie. Yesterday my wife came back from the Farmers market with 2 lovely rhubarb pies she had bought from the English bakery stand(law of attraction). So yes having rhubarb thoughts makes me a rhubarb pie lover. The English baker is a very nice lady too, I'm sure she would make cakes for gays couples.

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Old 06-05-2016, 07:25 AM
 
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I was at my brothers house just under a week ago and his wife had made him a huge Rhubarb pie, for the rest of the week I was thinking about that Rhubarb pie. Yesterday my wife came back from the Farmers market with 2 lovely rhubarb pies she had bought from the English bakery stand(law of attraction). So yes having rhubarb thoughts makes me a rhubarb pie lover. The English baker is a very nice lady too, I'm sure you would make cakes for gays couples.
. I too must confess to being a rhubarb pie lover, but it's definitely the fault of my upbringing. My dad was an avid gardener and always grew lots of rhubarb so my mom could make her delicious rhubarb desserts.
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Old 06-05-2016, 07:32 AM
 
Location: On the brink of WWIII
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. I too must confess to being a rhubarb pie lover, but it's definitely the fault of my upbringing. My dad was an avid gardener and always grew lots of rhubarb so my mom could make her delicious rhubarb desserts.
Rhubarb and strawberry preference here.. there is a great bakery in Indiana on old US 27 near Lake George (just outside Angola)that has pies to die for...
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Old 06-05-2016, 07:35 AM
 
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Wrong. Sexual behavior does not dictate orientation. Most straight people are attracted to the opposite-sex at a young age, despite never having sex.
Definitely this I think. As a young teen I was always attracted to strong female characters and often fantasizes about them I guess you could say. Grew up to marry a man and have a daughter. I think I liked the idea of the fantasy but the reality didn't appeal to me as much. If that makes sense.
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Old 06-05-2016, 07:36 AM
 
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Rhubarb and strawberry preference here.. there is a great bakery in Indiana on old US 27 near Lake George (just outside Angola)that has pies to die for...
Rhubarb pie vs. rhubarb-strawberry pie. I could swing both ways, so I guess that makes me bi-.
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Old 06-05-2016, 10:38 AM
 
Location: Red River Texas
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Sex outside of marriage is wrong, period....no matter what gender you are. The Bible does not recognize "orientation"....just sin. If you do the deed, you're sinning.
Jesus said that if you even lust after a woman, you are already guilty of the act.
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Old 06-05-2016, 10:40 AM
 
Location: Red River Texas
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rhubarb pie vs. Rhubarb-strawberry pie. I could swing both ways, so i guess that makes me bi-.
lol!
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Old 06-05-2016, 10:41 AM
 
Location: Red River Texas
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Definitely this I think. As a young teen I was always attracted to strong female characters and often fantasizes about them I guess you could say. Grew up to marry a man and have a daughter. I think I liked the idea of the fantasy but the reality didn't appeal to me as much. If that makes sense.
Sure makes sense to me, and I think most people do the same in many ways but wont always admit to it.
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Old 06-05-2016, 10:41 AM
 
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Jesus said that if you even lust after a woman, you are already guilty of the act.
What if you lust after Rhubarb ?
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