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Is looking more like the mainland but isn't the mainland. Gee who do you think they would choose?
Third which rules are we playing today? You always changing them, which i got to be honest is really haole. One day its you do the money part of moving and i will do culture never the too mix, well obviously that wasnt ok because about a mth later you starting garbage, then its hawaii is no different then the mainland (which means any mainlander would know how to live in hawaii) But now its you have to currently live in hawaii? Your worse then a hawaii politician. You want to lie to yourself fine don't bother me. Go kick your dog or beat your wife or call the cops on the homeless dude down the street or whatever small petty little ugly men like you do just leave me alone.
If local men were interested in me, then they'd talk to me. I've had a few that took me out on dates, but it did not go well mostly because they had a superior attitude. I told them if they wanted a local, then go get a local. Don't pick up a mainlander and then look down on her from being from the mainland. I know it's not all local men who act like that, but that's been my personal experience every single time. So, I look for other mainlanders because it makes everything easier.
I'm not in the business of trying to make anyone like me. Everything you've suggested is basically me trying to prove myself, and it's demeaning.
But i thought you were on here because you couldn't get a date? Oh AUWE! I got achihead!
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Well, if you lived in Hawaii you'd know trash/garbage is picked up 1X per week not 3X per week. Green Waste is every other week as well as Recyclables.
Omg dude i wasnt being literal. Do you have a learning handicap? like ADD or OCD? Just wondering. The point wasn't if garbage was picked up 3x a week, but that to get involved in the community, not for personal agendas, like alot of rich mainlanders do.
Basic question is: Do you want to date or find a life partner? If you just enjoy dating, move to the biggest city you can find. If you want to get married, go on eharmony.com and approach it the rational way. Then move together where you want to live.
Or even more simple: Look what bodies are available in a specific geographic area on match.com or yahoo personals. And if those are interested in what you have to offer.
.........the ones who are tend to be military as well. I want to find someone who plans to stay here. ........
Enyo, don't discount the military. Some are moving on, but some will end their enlistment and stay. Especially if 38-40 isn't too old for you.
Also, networking is valuable in dating, just as it is in many other areas of life. There are many people who work on the bases who are not actually military. There are many civilian employees who will stay in Hawaii. To meet them, you need to get onto the base. Thus the Squid ticket of admission.
Activity clubs and educational classes of the sort that necessitate people speaking to each other are usually the best bet.
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Oh AUWE! I got achihead! 
