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Old 10-25-2011, 03:57 PM
 
Location: Las Vegas, NV
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Old 10-25-2011, 04:08 PM
 
Location: La La Land
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no unforgiven she's actually very lucky if I see her right now I will tear her to pieces verbally speaking of course
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Jfk, what has me so cheesed off about this situation is that i've been up front with her about everything, she wasnt honest with me. Granted i've only known her 2 months, I wouldn't have expected her to.tell me that from the get gp,but had she mentioned it somewhere along the line as opposed to trying to cover it up, id be ok with it as long as she plans on getting a legit job soon

I actually do understand she needs to make a living, I just wished she hadnt handled it the way she did

As far as dates go, they.are few and far between for me, I take my sisters advice 'dont be picky, women just dont like you, just settle and.take.what you can get, cuz for you the pickings couldnt be slimmer'

And jfk, this girl who escorts...hands down, most beautiful i've ever been with
 
Old 10-25-2011, 04:52 PM
 
Location: Las Vegas, NV
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Quixotic59, I realize those statements are contradictory

I'm only mad about this because she lied to me
 
Old 10-25-2011, 06:15 PM
 
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Davie, if anything, you should at least get tested. As you know escorts are not innocent dates, they are prostitutes. It is dangerous for you and her both. Hopefully she gets out of this life before she winds up with her throat slashed lying in a ditch. As we all know, that is the unfortunate endgame. I personally would not leave her just yet, instead try to talk some sense into her at this point. If she wants to continue in this downward destruction, then leave her, you can do better.
 
Old 10-25-2011, 06:32 PM
 
Location: La La Land
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Davie, if anything, you should at least get tested. As you know escorts are not innocent dates, they are prostitutes. It is dangerous for you and her both. Hopefully she gets out of this life before she winds up with her throat slashed lying in a ditch. As we all know, that is the unfortunate endgame. I personally would not leave her just yet, instead try to talk some sense into her at this point. If she wants to continue in this downward destruction, then leave her, you can do better.
LVD, I certainly don't know the whole story, but I think calling the girl a prostitute is a bit harsh without knowing all the facts.


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Quixotic59, I realize those statements are contradictory

I'm only mad about this because she lied to me
Actually, Davie, what I meant was that she wasn't lying, but rather afraid to tell you. Again, I don't know the facts, but you cannot overlook the fact that this woman has chosen to be with you. At least hear her out before you condemn her. Have you considered the possibility that she had no choice and that she may be afraid of losing you?
 
Old 10-25-2011, 06:47 PM
 
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LVD, I certainly don't know the whole story, but I think calling the girl a prostitute is a bit harsh without knowing all the facts.
She most certainly is. I have been to many casinos in my time, and I have met quite a few girls who all called themselves "escorts." Not once have I ever had one of these girls say she was a hooker, prostitute, w h o r e, etc. It is no different then the garbage man saying he is a sanitation engineer. That may be his job title which makes him feel better about himself, but he is still a garbage man at the end of the day.
 
Old 10-25-2011, 07:38 PM
 
Location: So Cal
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Good morning las vegas, I know this is random but I got a phone call last night from a good friend who dug up some dirt on my new girl, shes been escorting behind my back on backpage.com

No I will not share the ad here, I'm just EXTREMELY p.o'd right now
It's not peaches is it? if it is, tell her I said hi.
 
Old 10-25-2011, 08:10 PM
 
Location: Tucson/Nogales
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Jfk, what has me so cheesed off about this situation is that i've been up front with her about everything, she wasnt honest with me. Granted i've only known her 2 months, I wouldn't have expected her to.tell me that from the get gp,but had she mentioned it somewhere along the line as opposed to trying to cover it up, id be ok with it as long as she plans on getting a legit job soon

I actually do understand she needs to make a living, I just wished she hadnt handled it the way she did
She probably knows the saying that all politicains know: Man is ice to truth!
Perhaps you made a derogatory comment, at some point, when the conversation included prostitutes, and, out of love for you and fearing she'd lose you, she knew better than to be truthful. If you were in the same situation, supplementing your income with "escorting" would you be daring enough to tell the truth?

I did this kind of "work" for years, back in the 70's, funding my way thru college, except my clientele were Gay/Bisexual men. IMO, all work is some form of prostitution, but I had a difficult time persuading anyone I was dating, during that period, that it was just a job!

Fortunately, I ended up having a couple long-term relationships with two of my clients, and I continued "escorting" even during those relationships.

Give her a break! Who knows, Davie, you may get so down on your luck some day, you may end up "escorting" as well just to keep a roof over your head! There are any number of straight men who cater to the Bisexual/Gay men and retain their sexual identity as well!

My good-looking friend, Tom, back in MN, he was married with a child, and he prostituted himself to other men to help support his family!
 
Old 10-25-2011, 08:51 PM
 
Location: Beautiful Upstate NY!
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Suggestion for Davie: Rent a copy of 'Pretty Woman' from NetFlix. Study Richard Gere's character...and then live the part. You one lucky SOB, you!
 
Old 10-25-2011, 09:12 PM
 
Location: Home!
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Suggestion for Davie: Rent a copy of 'Pretty Woman' from NetFlix. Study Richard Gere's character...and then live the part. You one lucky SOB, you!
Umm...that would have to be the other way around. Who knows, maybe it is. Maybe she is playing the Julia part.

Davie doesn't have Richard Gere's dough...no way to play that part when you slack appropriate funds. I just can't picture the scene where Julia is dressing up and he is watching her played out at Goodwill. Although, I guess it could be done.



I read some of these responses and KNOW that I am wayyyy too naive. Maybe I should pay more attention. I never notice hookers or guns on the Strip, yet I hear people talk about both all the time. Maybe I just don't care? Maybe it is better that way?

Two of my daughter's friends started as strippers in Detroit, moved here. One became an escort and one was a stripper. I didn't think all escort's end criteria was having to sleep with the stranger...silly me. Both are now back in Detroit. The escort girl is married with children and the other...not sure, she may still be stripping. I thought they were cute in HS, but when I saw pics of them on FB not too long ago, they both looked like 40 miles of bad road. Anyway, I digress...sorry.

Davie,

Depends on how you feel about it. Go with that. If you think you will be ok because people think you should, you will drive the relationship nuts with jealousy. Better to move on then. If not, work it out!
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