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Why is a 35 year old man friends with an 18 year old girl?
Some possibilities include:
- He wants to have sex with her.
- He sees her as the daughter he never had.
- They share common interests and/or life experiences.
- He has a case of arrested development; or, she is super-mature for her age.
- They were forced into it by their respective sets of parents.
- He's getting ready for when he turns 36, so he can brag that he's twice her age (assuming that he hits 36 before she hits 19).
OP, I assume you have a specific 35 year old man, and a specific 18 year old girl, in mind. If you would care to expand on your question and give us more context, perhaps we could give you better answers.
I know people much older than 35 who have met up with 18 year olds. More power to them. What does it matter to you what they are up too? Older men like younger women.. this is a biologically driven trait. If a young attractive female stares with interest at a well built, athletic older available guy the guy is not going to ignore her if he has a high sexual appetite now is he? Let's be honest here....
Let's see...
He is 35, she is 18.
OK, that means in law they are both theoretically "adult".
It is nobody's business why they are "friends".
Even if they are "lovers", it is nobody's business but theirs.
In any "May/December" relationship, December sees spring and summer in May.
May often sees Christmas in December.
Again, it is THEIR business.
One of my male friends is 42 and recently started "dating" (cradle robbing?) an 18 year old girl (like she JUST turned 18 and JUST graduated high school for god's sake). I find it to be disgusting!!! His own daughter is 22. What could they possibly have in common? Um NOTHING! I barely talk to him anymore because I just think it's super weird and bordering on child molestation.
I just friended my ex-boyfriend's son on FB. I'm 39 - he's 18. I consider him the closest thing I ever had to a child and want to help him get ahead in life after the rocky beginning he had.
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