What could be the deeper meaning/ reasons behind a person saying I don't want to work it out (acquaintance, business)

[Driller1]

We never really know what others are going though..........just listen to what they tell you.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ULKEBJRC0gs

[JasperJade]

Originally Posted by kittycat40

Please elaborate thanks!

It makes no sense that you extend your hand out to that person and they respond like that.

Is that a defense mechanism or did that. It understand what work it out mean?

I would like to hear your personal stories. Have you done this and why?

Can someone please translate?

Honestly, do people not proofread their posts?

[Mikala43]

Nothing deep about that. It is clear and concise communication.

They do not want to work it out.

Go away from them and cease all forms of communication.

People who don't end up getting arrested for stalking.

[kittycat40]

Originally Posted by Georgianbelle

I got one too, but didn't respond because frankly we are not friends. I do not want to hear what happened in a private message as you asked. If you can't talk about it on here for everyone to see why would you pm people you don't know? Let this go.

I pmed most posters who responded to this thread. I didn't want to post the full story here in this thread because thousands view the thread. Many of which respond in a mean childish way like you did unfortunately.


I simply asked in a pm if I could tell you my story. You could have just pmed back saying no I don't want to read your story and I would have not bothered you.

[kittycat40]

Originally Posted by JasperJade

Can someone please translate?

Honestly, do people not proofread their posts?

I need to proofread better


What I mean is that every response has a reason behind it.

Yes if someone says I don't want to work it out. It means they don't want to work it out.

But possible reasons for why?


Maybe I should have explained it better

[kittycat40]

Originally Posted by City-duck

OK the OP just wrote me a 5,000 word pm and expected me to read it all.

YOU HAVE NO POWER OVER ME TROLL.

Wow I asked you if I could tell you my story and even said it was long. You said sure. I don't think it's right for you to call me a troll because I sent you a really long story in a pm. But it is what it is. I wish you well.

[kittycat40]

I can't edit the original post


So I'll do it here.

It makes no sense that you extend your hand out to that person and they respond like that.

Is that a defense mechanism or what. Do they understand what work it out means?

I would like to hear your personal stories. Have you done this and why?

[Missy2U]

Originally Posted by kittycat40

I need to proofread better


What I mean is that every response has a reason behind it.

Yes if someone says I don't want to work it out. It means they don't want to work it out.

But possible reasons for why?


Maybe I should have explained it better

The reason is what we've been telling you! They're sick and tired of your drama! GIVE. IT. UP. AND. LEAVE. THEM. ALONE! !"""

[elyn02]

Originally Posted by kittycat40

I can't edit the original post


So I'll do it here.

It makes no sense that you extend your hand out to that person and they respond like that.

Is that a defense mechanism or what. Do they understand what work it out means?

I would like to hear your personal stories. Have you done this and why?

Do you accept that "no" means "no"?

Do you respect when somebody says "no" by backing off?

[Frihed89]

OP: Because they have tried to work it out so many times, and failed, that they are sick and tired of trying again.