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If this is happening with everyone in your life, socially, professionally etc then yes there is a issue with you you may need to address through counseling. Getting another job and one that doesn't involve a lot of public interaction is a good idea, and if you can get a job with health insurance that would cover counseling is even better.
If all your coworkers and the manager don't like you, you are in a tough situation. The time is now for you to start looking for something else to do, because the handwriting is on the wall already. You going to have to start over, and this time focus on your job and learning it well. Don't worry about making friends and being liked, just do your job and do it as best you can.
op your posting history contains a theme: No one likes you, you say this again and again.
You said your family didn't like you and treated you badly. Many posts stating this.
Ditto friend group you used to have, all dropped you. You posted this multiple times.
Boyfriends, all abusive except current fwb. Many posts on this.
Church folk, don't like you. Pastor's wife, you said, didn't like you and accused you of hitting on her husband, didn't like you taking food, you also said. You posted this.
Last mcdonald's job, got fired. You blamed it on the one date you had with the manager. Whole thread about it.
Subsequent jobs, got fired for being too slow/talking too much/not getting work done. Several posts.
Could it maybe be you have an unrealistic view of your own behavior?
I'm going by data you provided, not assumptions. Anyone who reads your posting hx shall see the same.
The only positive human interaction you've mentioned was with the current fwb. All else was complaining how you are persecuted, abused, taken advantage of and disliked.
Sounds like this manager has same complaints about your work performance as the job you were fired from that you made an earlier thread about (stocking shelves i think it was?)
OP, why is it so hard for you to do your job? You've worked at McDonald's for years and still can't master the skills of fast food? What is puzzling about it to you?
Well, perhaps your upcoming whirlwind junket to Paris will clear your head and motivate you to be the best gol dang burger flipper ever!
I'd be looking for another job, keeping a log of all these events with names, dates, places, who what when where why how, as CYA and if there's ever a hearing because you should probably go past your supervisor in the chain of command.
There are no "friends" at work. You see how loose lips sink ships. As Poor Richard aka Ben Franklin said long ago, "A secret is safe with three if two of them are dead."
Don't tell ANYONE at work ANYTHING you do not want blabbed all over Kingdom Come, or even just the office and the bar they all hang out at.
Document, document, document. "If it's not written down, it didn't happen."
See your boss's boss.
Look for a new job.
Do your job. Does your job description say "clean this dump up including slobby co-workers' messes, and do everyone else's work"? No, I didn't think so.
Good luck, looks like you're in what's been called a feceshole. Better days ahead!
OP, why is it so hard for you to do your job? You've worked at McDonald's for years and still can't master the skills of fast food? What is puzzling about it to you?
Well, perhaps your upcoming whirlwind junket to Paris will clear your head and motivate you to be the best gol dang burger flipper ever!
Why is someone with a sugar daddy working in fast food?
Why is someone considering going to college to study law struggling to perform simple fast-food job tasks? Or visa-versa: how could someone ostensibly struggling to get along with co-workers and keep jobs in the fast food field be considering law as a career?
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