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Old 05-10-2011, 03:59 PM
 
Location: Bradenton, Florida
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Should someone stay married to her husband because he's turned from "Mr. Right" to "Mr. Domestic Violence" or "Mr. Abuse" or "Mr. Chasing Anything In A Skirt"?
She should have known ahead of time.

But she's more interested in the "bad boy" than the "nice guy".
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Old 05-10-2011, 04:01 PM
 
Location: London
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Oh, I can accept that. I also accept that the women in question made BAD choices. If they made good choices, they wouldn't be going after the bad boy who would do such a thing. And that ultimately, the women don't really care what he does--they're happier to get rid of him and divorce him--if they were ever married in the first place--because they don't NEED him to raise their kids.

Ask any single mom if she "needs" a man...
Would you be disappointed if you asked a single mom if she needed a man and she said that she'd love for her kid to have a dad?
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Old 05-10-2011, 04:03 PM
 
Location: Bradenton, Florida
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Hmm. I just have one question...
Say a man and a woman have some kids, and they go the traditional route. Forget about whether they're doing it out of choice or obligation. Man goes to work, gets all the income for the family. Woman raises the kids and stays at home.
According to TKramar's Rules Of Life, what happens after the kids grow up and leave home? Is it okay for the woman to sit back and relax and spend hubby's free money since "her job" is done? After all, that's the man's role, right? To be an ATM? He should be satisfied, shouldn't he?
Her job isn't done. Her job continues...whether or not there are any kids to begin with. She takes care of the home, and he takes care of providing income. Even if he needs to take two or three jobs to do it.
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Old 05-10-2011, 04:04 PM
 
Location: Bradenton, Florida
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Would you be disappointed if you asked a single mom if she needed a man and she said that she'd love for her kid to have a dad?
I'm not asking what her kid needs, I'm asking what SHE needs.

Does she need or want a man to financially provide for her and her kid(s)? That's as far as a man has to go to be a dad, by the way, financial support.
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Old 05-10-2011, 04:04 PM
 
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The new age ideologies and lifestyles not conducive to 'family' and 'reproduction'.
The old traditional roles of women in society are not conducive to a woman developing herself to her full intellectual, physical, emotional, and economic potential. They essentially place her in a second class citizenship and social category where she is expected to subjugate herself to men.

It's not an either or decision. Millions of women around the world are combining families and careers and doing so successfully or making choices to follows WHATEVER PATH MAKES THEM HAPPY. The most important thing is a woman in society now has a CHOICE in how she decides to live her life.

The real question here is why are men or I should say "So called men" REALLY afraid of in terms of women having the freedom to live their lives as they choose.

Men who seem to challenge feminism or speak out against strong, intelligent, capable and empowered women are really speaking out about their own insecurities as much as any social changes.
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Old 05-10-2011, 04:06 PM
 
Location: New Hampshire
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She should have known ahead of time.

But she's more interested in the "bad boy" than the "nice guy".
I guess you are one of those who also blame women who wear "skimpy" clothes and end up being raped? Because according to you they should have known ahead of time what their outfit choices could lead to.

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Old 05-10-2011, 04:06 PM
 
Location: London
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She should have known ahead of time.

But she's more interested in the "bad boy" than the "nice guy".

.....for real?
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Old 05-10-2011, 04:06 PM
 
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Feminism is also about destroying masculinity in men and destroying the male gender in general. The gang is doing its thing in the West.
If you are REALLY confident in your manhood than NOTHING can crush your masculinity.
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Old 05-10-2011, 04:07 PM
 
Location: Bradenton, Florida
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Yeah, for real.

Remember "nice guys" are "boring". Dependable guys are "boring". Guys who put you on a pedestal are "boring".
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Old 05-10-2011, 04:08 PM
 
Location: Bradenton, Florida
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I guess you are one of those who also blame women who wear "skimpy" clothes and end up being raped? Because according to you they should have known ahead of time what their outfit choices could lead to.

You're talking about someone else's choices, not the woman's. Women intentionally seek out guys that aren't "nice".
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