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Old 08-10-2019, 06:29 PM
 
Location: Houston
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Simple solution get married if you want to have kids.

Society will be better off.
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Old 08-10-2019, 06:38 PM
 
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You have a very bizarre way of looking at things.
how so? Give me your theory on why women use repressive machinery state provides to target some men and can go as far as leaving birth certificate father field blank to protect others. Limited statistics I collected tells me that those who get free ride are of "I don't give crap" raw musculinity/psychopathy kind. Men mule pay for themselves and others, women offer no mercy to mule men. More than that they target them for paternity fraud. Why?
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Old 08-10-2019, 06:41 PM
 
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Simple solution get married if you want to have kids.

Society will be better off.
get married, have kids and you are on the hook for child support even if your kids were fathered by HS football team. Marriage solves nothing really.
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Old 08-10-2019, 06:44 PM
 
Location: minnesota
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get married, have kids and you are on the hook for child support even if your kids were fathered by HS football team. Marriage solves nothing really.
You mean married men have to support their kids too? Who'd a thunk?
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Old 08-10-2019, 06:47 PM
 
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Where are they bringing the baby until they decide? Are they going to lock in it a cage?
I have no idea whatsoever where you are going with this. Pro tip: try explaining yourself in a way that people can figure out what point you are trying to make.

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How? I married at 25, had my child at 29. My husband and I are still together and my kid is 22. You know who benefits? People who don't get married. Had I not been married the tax savings alone could have paid my mortgage. Can't eat your cake and have it too.
Because you have all the leverage. You can walk away at anytime, with cash and prizes, with the full force and support of the family court junta. You benefit from a threat point.

https://dalrock.wordpress.com/2012/04/14/threatpoint/


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Nice you got around to bringing up the kids. Yes, I have no respect for people who don't financially support their children. That includes women too. Like Judge Judy says "YOU PICKED THEM."
No, this isn't true. You said yourself that you do not wish to change the laws pertaining to custody and child support. But the way that the law works, Mom is not required to financially support her kids, only Dad is.
//www.city-data.com/forum/polit...o-one-can.html

In other words, you support Mom not being required to financially support her kids. That's the very definition of respect.


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I did go there and I'd do it again
So do the adult thing and explain why you did it and why you would go there again. Be an adult, don't be a coward. When you make an accusation that I don't care about my kids, explain where you got that from. Right now the evidence shows pretty clearly that it is you that doesn't care about children as I am not the one pining for a system that separates children from their parents- you are.
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Old 08-10-2019, 06:48 PM
 
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You mean married men have to support their kids too? Who'd a thunk?
Married men have to support "their" kids even if a wife cheats and forgets/doesn't know the names of strangers she banged at a conception. Sounds fair to me.
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Old 08-10-2019, 06:50 PM
 
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Simple solution get married if you want to have kids.

Society will be better off.
No, this is no solution at all. Almost 40% of all births come from unmarried Moms.
https://ifstudies.org/blog/how-we-en...out-of-wedlock

How does your solution help the millions of children and millions of Dad's that fall into this category?

Or is that you simply don't care about these children and you that you don't care about these Dads?
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Old 08-10-2019, 06:51 PM
 
Location: Canada
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No doubt that there is a lot of apparent or blatant misogyny in many aspects of this country. However, even though misogyny has a longer history, I think it is stupid to overlook the fact that there is a sizable amount of misandry in this country as well. If we go by feminist logic of a situation, law, or policy that favors men over women as being "sexist", then that same label applies when there is a situation, law, or policy that favors women over men.
Do you think it was women who made these laws and policies?
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Old 08-10-2019, 06:51 PM
 
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You mean married men have to support their kids too? Who'd a thunk?
Communication really isn't your strong point. What in the world are you talking about?
Pro tip: try harder to explain yourself.
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Old 08-10-2019, 06:55 PM
 
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Do you think it was women who made these laws and policies?
Do you think it was the unmarried men having children that made these laws and policies?

These unjust laws and policies have been imposed on society by unjust people, and it doesn't matter at all which gender passed these laws and imposed these policies. Why would it?
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