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Old 10-16-2018, 01:33 AM
 
Location: Henderson, NV
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The only teenagers who have a "same sex experience" are gay. I have never had one, nor have any of my friends from high school, as none of us are gay.

I'd imagine it's only 1-2% of the population, as that is the percent of the population that is gay.
Yeah exactly. If you’re not gay then the idea of doing anything with another guy is just gross. It doesn’t mean I judge anyone for being gay, I just find it gross personally and have no issues with whatever makes anyone else happy. Their bodies their lives, after all.
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Old 10-16-2018, 11:25 AM
 
Location: PNW
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I am female but back in the 60's when I was 12 and 13, and had no concept at all of the 'gay' world, let alone same sex experiences, a couple of my friends tried to get me to kiss them and I just couldn't do it. I had no curiosity at all and found the thought revolting. I think some teen girls experiment, too.
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Old 10-16-2018, 02:41 PM
 
Location: Unlike most on CD, I'm not afraid to give my location: Milwaukee, WI.
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Old 10-18-2018, 07:04 AM
 
Location: SoCal
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I would say at least 30% im in my early 20s, and this was very common in middle school, it's mostly for play, but it's much more common than people think. It's just that society has such a strong stigma that majority will never admit to it ,its let you know just how closeted we are as a society.

Even in the most homophobic places there are still many instances.
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Old 10-18-2018, 07:09 AM
 
Location: SoCal
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I don't know what to think of this. These days, straight male teenagers become sexually active (with their girlfriends) at an early age. So, I don't think there's a need to engage in same-sex experimentation with friends.

Also, you never hear of young gay men who ever experimented with women just out of horniness. I'd venture to say that most gay men would be repulsed by the thought of doing anything of a sexual nature with a woman. They wouldn't even consider touching a woman. By the same token, I would also venture that most straight men are genuinely repulsed by the thought of sexual contact with another man. Why else would society be so homophobic?

This is a rather creepy question BTW.
Not the case at all I was only attracted to women at a young age, and could never really comprehend an attraction to another male until I was actually exposed to male on male contact, and I found it attractive at the time, and I couldn't even imagine that until I saw it for myself.
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Old 10-18-2018, 03:46 PM
 
Location: A coal patch in Pennsyltucky
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I would say at least 30% im in my early 20s, and this was very common in middle school, it's mostly for play, but it's much more common than people think. It's just that society has such a strong stigma that majority will never admit to it ,its let you know just how closeted we are as a society.

Even in the most homophobic places there are still many instances.
I find that unbelievable! But I was checking out girls by age 7 and was already thinking about sex with them.
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Old 10-18-2018, 03:57 PM
 
Location: Central IL
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I would say at least 30% im in my early 20s, and this was very common in middle school, it's mostly for play, but it's much more common than people think. It's just that society has such a strong stigma that majority will never admit to it ,its let you know just how closeted we are as a society.

Even in the most homophobic places there are still many instances.
I really think that a lot of guys of that age are really horny and they're too young to have much luck with girls or maybe don't have access to girls so they just turn to each other out of sheer convenience and it rarely means anything. They just want to get off any way they can and are curious about everything. Once they have other "outlets" then they go on to those outlets. Not a big deal at all as long as none of it is coercive.
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Old 10-20-2018, 03:28 PM
 
Location: SoCal
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I find that unbelievable! But I was checking out girls by age 7 and was already thinking about sex with them.
I was thinking about them before then I feel like I hit puberty at age 4, idk why I was trying to get with every single girl it wasn't until now that i'm remembering this. Literally my only early memories involve "playing" with girls. lol
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Old 10-20-2018, 03:30 PM
 
Location: SoCal
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I really think that a lot of guys of that age are really horny and they're too young to have much luck with girls or maybe don't have access to girls so they just turn to each other out of sheer convenience and it rarely means anything. They just want to get off any way they can and are curious about everything. Once they have other "outlets" then they go on to those outlets. Not a big deal at all as long as none of it is coercive.
That's definitely true, and with guys you can play with them while doing the same thing with girls could get you in very big trouble I learned that the hard way, and it seems as if we're headed further down that road, i'm glad I learned though.
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Old 06-19-2019, 01:42 PM
 
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I grew up in the foot hills of north Georgia and i had more boy on boy action from guys who are now married with children and of those a few who still seeks me out every now and then for more. i too am married with kids of my own but believe me when i say it's much much higher than ten percent. there was a family down the road that had six rugged masculine boys all of whom would beat your ass to be called gay,, all six i fooled around with none knew the other had.
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