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Old 05-14-2016, 10:20 PM
 
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Originally Posted by nanannie View Post
I think this ugly, pathetic and desperate attempt at attention of a thread should die.
This sad loser of a human being who defends his mental illness because he is a super villain, has gotten enough of the attention he so desperatly craves.
And yet you continue to give him attention through insults.

Look OP, seek help and medication. Seriously. Whatever happen to you was traumatic so seek some type of help.
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Old 05-14-2016, 11:15 PM
 
Location: Los Angeles area
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You know this would all be avoided if people just treat each other with respect and dignity and not try to bully and intimidate each other. All of this talk of revenge and the desire for revenge would not exist.
Nice sentiment, but what does that have to do with the real world?
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Old 05-15-2016, 12:27 AM
 
Location: Missoula, Mt
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I could see if I slit the throat of someone who cut me off, but this is different. Why is it so hard for some people to understand there are really awful people out there who deserve to have awful things done back to them?
Because the do-gooders have slave values. They think any kind of power, even just standing up for yourself, is wrong and "bad." Most are probably not Christian but people who think they've escaped Christian values (that many Christians don't have) and believe they are morally superior to them when in fact they've just become liberal humanists. They probably do ****ty things in their life but don't have any self-honesty so just have their dark side cut off.

What to look up on 4chan?
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Old 05-15-2016, 02:00 AM
 
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Nice sentiment, but what does that have to do with the real world?
Funny how I'm getting flack for this comment but hey if a world where people treat each other with respect is too far-fetched then so is a world where people don't seek retribution for things done to them.
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Old 05-15-2016, 03:31 AM
 
Location: USA
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I haven't read this whole thread. I'm only up to page four.

But my impression so far is that it's sad that the OP felt the need to do this. On the other hand, if his 'victim' is someone who has been as truly awful as the OP describes him to be, then I can't see myself crying buckets of tears over what the OP did to him.

I'm not defending what the OP did, because it doesn't sound mentally healthy. But I'm thinking, if you decide to get "revenge" on someone after a whole lot of years, better it be someone who is still as bad as they were when they victimized you. To get "revenge" on someone who is a completely different person, is no longer the bully you remember them to be, would be awful. But causing difficulties for someone who is currently beating other people up? The reasons behind it I don't agree with, but ... meh, I don't feel too sorry for any wife beater who is experiencing difficulties in their life. If the source of their difficulties is someone who should have let it go years ago... well I guess that's what happens when two sad people collide...
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Old 05-15-2016, 04:17 AM
 
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I don't feel badly for the victim. What I find pathetic is that the OP makes a thread about closure but his behavior makes it clear that his plot provided anything but that.

Also, it b is obvious that the OP enjoyed it. It makes one wonder if the bloodshed is over, or will the OP find a new victim? You do something like this once, how easy is it to do again?
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Old 05-15-2016, 05:06 AM
 
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the only thing ive taken from the OP is that his idea of revenge is pretty PG rated compared to my own

ive never taken revenge on the monster who wronged me eighteen years ago as it would involve serious stuff and besides , my life is great now , have i forgiven the person who wronged me , hell no !

the stuff shrinks come out with is just another way of pacifying people in the way society does , keep your head down , bite your tongue , let it go , the articulation of this approach is typified by crap like

" your the bully for wanting revenge "

" your no better than the person who bullied you "

dishonest appraisals by any objective and symptomatic of a more insidious mindset nowadays where bullies are not only given a pass for their evil deeds , they are slyly admired to some degree , their victim is often demonised further if they try and expose the wrongdoings of their oppressor

to the OP , does this guy know it was you who was behind all this , if he doesnt , its not really revenge

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Old 05-15-2016, 05:16 AM
 
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Why is so hard for YOU to see there is a big difference between hunting down Nazis responsible for killing 6 million people or Bin Laden who orchestrated the murder of over 3000 and a junior high bully?
only a difference of scale and level of brutality , the sins of ISIS are greater than that of bernie madoff but both were indifferent to ruining the lives of others , benchmarking against even worse behaviour leaves you in a moral funk
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Old 05-15-2016, 07:20 AM
 
Location: az
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Yes. Who paid for this? Not your "enemy," who simply sent the pizza guy home. As for the transsexual hooker, so what? Again, dude sent him/her home and, well, that was that, I'm sure.

I don't know, I'm not getting what's pleasurable about all this.
Agree.
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Old 05-15-2016, 08:02 AM
 
Location: Ontario
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I could buy this. If we've evolved the capacity for revenge there could be this benefit to it. That's not crazy.
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