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Old 07-13-2010, 10:56 AM
 
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I agree, just because everyone else around me knows how to handle these situations like water off a ducks back, dosen't mean I can.

Lesson learned.... need to go buy a bunch of cats now.

The catlady scenario seems much easier to me than this man/woman complicated stuff.....
Oh, stop being such a drama queen!! You made a mistake. You aren't the first one who has made one and you won't be the last.

Save the cats for when you're 90.

Learn from this experience and know how to avoid it in the future. That's it....nice and simple. Quit trying to over-dramatize it.
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Old 07-13-2010, 10:57 AM
 
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Please tell me how a thief stealing a wallet is the same as a girl having drunk sex with a dude?

You do know what a thief is? Someone who takes without permission, steals.

The OP LET him have sex with her. Drunk or not, it was by choice.
What state law would you like me to find?
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Old 07-13-2010, 11:01 AM
 
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Oh, stop being such a drama queen!! You made a mistake. You aren't the first one who has made one and you won't be the last.

Save the cats for when you're 90.

Learn from this experience and know how to avoid it in the future. That's it....nice and simple. Quit trying to over-dramatize it.

I guess so, but I was so proud that I have only slept with a few people.... now I have another number to add on there.

I was one of those saps who allways wished there was only ever one.

Well, at least I am not crying anymore....

What a dork.... crying feels good though, I needed it.
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Old 07-13-2010, 11:03 AM
 
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Great! Did you see what I wrote above? Memorize this:

IF you really want to mean more to a guy then respect yourself.

If you don't, he never will.

Being "out of your element" does not have to be a problem.

Remember, you are the captain of your ship - so quit steering yourself into the rocks!

Just slow things down a bit, quit feeling like you have to "catch up" with other people your age - YOU DON'T. Decide who YOU want to be and what the lines are that you won't cross, then live by the rules you make for yourself.

thank you. I will. xo
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Old 07-13-2010, 11:03 AM
 
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What state law would you like me to find?
I don't know of any that say it's lawful to steal.....please provide that info.

Oh, and don't come reciting some BS statute that is subjective because that does not apply in this case. The OP WILLINGLY HAD SEX WITH THE GUY. DRUNK OR NOT IT WAS HER CHOICE.

Now, if you can find a law that says it's unlawful for two consenting people to have sex.......by all means......bring it.
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Old 07-13-2010, 11:04 AM
 
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What state law would you like me to find?
There's a law in my hometown that any group of women, 3 or more, need to apply for a permit before assembling in public.

Find something more absurd than that.
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Old 07-13-2010, 11:05 AM
 
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Now, if you can find a law that says it's unlawful for two consenting people to have sex.......by all means......bring it.
Just about everywhere in the Middle East.
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Old 07-13-2010, 11:06 AM
 
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I guess so, but I was so proud that I have only slept with a few people.... now I have another number to add on there.

I was one of those saps who allways wished there was only ever one.

Well, at least I am not crying anymore....

What a dork.... crying feels good though, I needed it.
Believe me, you will look back and laugh one day....or not even recall it from your memory.

Don't let mistakes define you, learn from them. You'll be fine....just leave the alcohol alone until you can control it.....don't let it control you.
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Old 07-13-2010, 11:07 AM
 
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I don't know of any that say it's lawful to steal.....please provide that info.

Oh, and don't come reciting some BS statute that is subjective because that does not apply in this case. The OP WILLINGLY HAD SEX WITH THE GUY. DRUNK OR NOT IT WAS HER CHOICE.

Now, if you can find a law that says it's unlawful for two consenting people to have sex.......by all means......bring it.
All she said was "I'm drunk." I could be wrong, I didn't read that closely.

Obviously I'm not in front of a law library right now, but I do not believe people can lawfully give consent to have sex, while drunk.

Ask Redisca...isn't she a lawyer?
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Old 07-13-2010, 11:07 AM
 
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Just about everywhere in the Middle East.
Well, let's just keep in the USA please.
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