Drunk so not innocent (marriage, man, young, feeling)
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Like I said to dave, I don't feel like a victom at all, I just feel like mabey I didn't mean that much to him..... I am used to guys tucking me into bed with a kiss on the forehead..... now I feel like this guy I really liked just sees me as another girl, not anything more...
I have just been spoiled by my guy friends I guess, and heard too much guy talk in my days...
You put yourself in the position to not mean much to him. I'm sorry you let yourself get out of control and ended up being an easy lay for him. I'm sure you feel more ashamed/embarrased than vulnerable. It happens to some of us in life but you can't turnaround and blame others.
Yes, he could have resisted and not had sex with you but obvisously you haven't been around here long enough to know that is a rare occurence.
I would stay low until I heard from him again. If you don't hear from him, there's your clue.
I don't know... I have a difficult time with the analogy about mickies, which I assume is street for benzodiazepines.
Depends on the situation. I know guys intentionally get a girls drunk so they would be easy to get into bed. Doing this by pushing drinks on them knowing full well the women were not drinkers. I know it is everyones responsibility to control themselves. But in the real world we know that people succumb to peer pressure and that drunk can slip up on anyone.
A real friend or partner does indeed look out for your interest as best they can to prevent you from getting into a vurlerable position.
Obviously I can't carry around a breathalyzer (and I'm selective about who I sleep with anyways) but if I heard that I would just stop. We could continue next time then.
You put yourself in the position to not mean much to him. I'm sorry you let yourself get out of control and ended up being an easy lay for him. I'm sure you feel more ashamed/embarrased than vulnerable. It happens to some of us in life but you can't turnaround and blame others.
Yes, he could have resisted and not had sex with you but obvisously you haven't been around here long enough to know that is a rare occurence.
I would stay low until I heard from him again. If you don't hear from him, there's your clue.
So I should wait until he calls me then?
These guys are right, I do feel like some little kid. I am SOOOO clueless about this adult stuff....
I think I would be happier as some cat lady....
I haven't been desensitized yet, or jaded or whatever, so it sucks having feelings and caring...
I haven't been desensitized yet, or jaded or whatever, so it sucks having feelings and caring...
Rule of thumb: if it looks like a penis, smells like a penis, then it's a penis and there is a man trying to use it. And if he isn't, then congrats. You found your token gay sidekick.
That should help modify your own behavior and decisions.
Depends on the situation. I know guys intentionally get a girls drunk so they would be easy to get into bed. Doing this by pushing drinks on them knowing full well the women were not drinkers. I know it is everyones responsibility to control themselves. But in the real world we know that people succumb to peer pressure and that drunk can slip up on anyone.
A real friend or partner does indeed look out for your interest as best they can to prevent you from getting into a vurlerable position.
That is what I thought, that is what I am used to....
Um, here's a little clue for ya. Saying repeatedly"I AM DRUNK" = "F**KME*
There it is right there.....
To say that is an invitation for him to get you into bed..
Not to be confused with rape , which it does not sound like here,...
Ben Roethlisberger, is that you?
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