Why does the love of my life refuse to accept being my friend?? (girls, cheat)
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She is mean and materialistic. What do you like about her again?
A woman derserving of being "sprug" over doesn't say that your complete love and devotion is not enough or that your gifts are not enough.
Boodhabunny summed it up for me. Relationships just aren't this difficult and if they are, they are not healthy. There were several red flags for me reading it on both of your sides. To me it just spells out that both of you have a lot of growing up to do.
The point is, you are working way too hard and there is way too much drama in what you have told us. I think it's time you cut her loose, you take some alone time for you and really evaluate yourself, your life, your dreams, etc then start over.
Boodhabunny summed it up for me. Relationships just aren't this difficult and if they are, they are not healthy. There were several red flags for me reading it on both of your sides. To me it just spells out that both of you have a lot of growing up to do.
The point is, you are working way too hard and there is way too much drama in what you have told us. I think it's time you cut her loose, you take some alone time for you and really evaluate yourself, your life, your dreams, etc then start over.
It sounds like you are infatuated with this woman (she's your day and night, your seasons, your world, your everything? huh??) and trying to buy her love with bags and rings and trips. It won't work.
It sounds like you are infatuated with this woman (she's your day and night, your seasons, your world, your everything? huh??) and trying to buy her love with bags and rings and trips. It won't work.
I really dont think so... I have the option of being infatuated with women that have a lot more going than she does. All the feelings that I have for her are off purely me liking who I thought she was when we met.
So, the lady in question would rather have an emotionally happy and healthy relationship than LV bags and a man who picks fights with her and gets tempted by other women when he travels alone. GOOD FOR HER.
Straight talk: She probably doesn't want to mooch off you--er, accept your benevolent generosity--because the "negativity" you've incurred in your relationship leads her to believe that you would hold it over her head.
Given that you "find it harder to say No Thanks" when you go away and a "chick" invites you to dinner and drinks in her room "or something," I'd say you are unstable and untrustworthy enough that she could be onto something. A man in love does not entertain thoughts of accepting invitations from other women, whether he is officially in a relationship with the woman he loves or not.
So, the lady in question would rather have an emotionally happy and healthy relationship than LV bags and a man who picks fights with her and gets tempted by other women when he travels alone. GOOD FOR HER.
Straight talk: She probably doesn't want to mooch off you--er, accept your benevolent generosity--because the "negativity" you've incurred in your relationship leads her to believe that you would hold it over her head.
Given that you "find it harder to say No Thanks" when you go away and a "chick" invites you to dinner and drinks in her room "or something," I'd say you are unstable and untrustworthy enough that she could be onto something. A man in love does not entertain thoughts of accepting invitations from other women, whether he is officially in a relationship with the woman he loves or not.
That's my story, and I'm sticking to it.
yea you strike good points.
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