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yeah its been said about cold feet but my feet have been cold for a very long time now. Some things are not meant to be and deep down i got the feeling that this whole situation just wasnt right. It has caused me a lot of stress for a long time now.
I really dont know how she could be happy either , she can clearly see how i feel, anytime i ask to talk about it its like she blanks me out and doesnt want to know.
Its a hard weekend for me , i just told my parents there and tomorrow i have to go down and explain to her parents as she still hasnt told them any of this.
I'll be the biggest bastard ever now for doing this but **** it life goes on, i didnt murder anyone at the end of the day
Hope it goes well when you meet with her parents.
I know that will not be an easy thing to do, but in the long run it's the best thing to do for both of you. When something's not right, it's not right.
People who go around constantly trying to fit round pegs into square holes never end up in a very comfortable place and can in fact find themselves very squeezed. And believe me, you WANT your marriage to be comfortable - the world is a tough enough place without adding another battlefield at home
together for 4.5 years, and live together.
it's 2 weeks before the wedding. we have guests coming from out of country, and the west coast.
i'm thinking of calling it off and breaking up all together. i feel like it's not the right match personality wise, and although we've been together for this long, i just now have realized how difficult my life will be with her if we get married.
i'm at work right now, and can think of nothing but this. i don't know what to do. my head is about to explode.
Hi Sharpie,
It's been some time now, just wanted to see how your marriage is coming along. Is everything going well together between you and your wife? Let us know
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