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Old 10-11-2010, 02:35 PM
 
Location: St Thomas, US Virgin Islands
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Women usually feel a lot safer around men when talk about sex or take out their private-lol
Could you translate this into English, please.
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Old 10-11-2010, 02:38 PM
 
Location: Bradenton, Florida
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Men and women are both incomprehensible. That's the problem with psychology, it thinks it can define something that is basically illogical.

But to try to put a logical spin on your situation, she didn't feel there was a spark, and moved on, and didn't want you following her out.
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Old 10-11-2010, 02:47 PM
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Location: Tall Building down by the river
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Could you translate this into English, please.
Women for some reason feel more comfortable around men who talk about sex and their private parts.


Men who talk about current events or the economy appear to be creepy
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Old 10-11-2010, 03:00 PM
 
Location: Bradenton, Florida
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Women for some reason feel more comfortable around men who talk about sex and their private parts.


Men who talk about current events or the economy appear to be creepy
Is that how it works on your planet? It doesn't work that way here on Earth.
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Old 10-11-2010, 03:04 PM
 
Location: St Thomas, US Virgin Islands
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Women for some reason feel more comfortable around men who talk about sex and their private parts.
Men who talk about current events or the economy appear to be creepy
Ah, the pearls of wisdom the boy can spit out ...
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Old 10-11-2010, 03:05 PM
 
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None of us understand other people, and many of us don't understand ourselves. I don't think it's necessary to categorize that woman's behavior with all women, any more than any one man's represents all men.

If you met a person with blue eyes whose behavior confused, hurt, or otherwise caused you to respond, would you apply your judgment to all people with blue eyes?
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Old 10-11-2010, 04:43 PM
 
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Women for some reason feel more comfortable around men who talk about sex and their private parts.
Men who talk about current events or the economy appear to be creepy
I am guessing you don't date much? Or at least don't get many second dates? Off the chart..totally...why on earth would you think that women want to hear men talk about sex or their private parts? Unless the only women you talk to charge by the minute...

I would not want to be with a man who could actually hold an intelligent coversation about the economy or current events.......right....I would rather hear about his private parts and sex....yep, sounds like a great conversation to me..........yep.......yeah.....
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Old 10-11-2010, 04:52 PM
 
Location: Arizona
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maybe she thought were using this as an excuse to awkwardly "make a move". that's kind of a generic way to get a kiss goodnight.

maybe she didn't like you.

maybe she did like you, but met another guy she liked too, and she didn't want you screwing up her game.

maybe she trying to leave, and you said, "Hey, I'll leave too," like a puppy that follows you anywhere..

maybe she was geniunely concerned for her safety.

^^^ I agree here. Could be lots of things going on. I don't doubt she liked your conversation and enjoyed herself, but the thought of being in a dark parking lot with you so soon may have intimidated her into running. Maybe she is just a little socially awkward and didn't know how to politely decline vs. burning rubber away from you.

See if she is there next week and don't make mention of it. Just chat her up as usual.
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Old 10-11-2010, 04:54 PM
 
Location: ATL with a side of Chicago
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Women for some reason feel more comfortable around men who talk about sex and their private parts.


Men who talk about current events or the economy appear to be creepy

There is no emoticon that fits my reaction to this.
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Old 10-11-2010, 04:59 PM
 
Location: Clayton, MO
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Women for some reason feel more comfortable around men who talk about sex and their private parts.


Men who talk about current events or the economy appear to be creepy
Where have you been talking to women? On the Howard Stern Show?
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