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At this point in your life, how important is sex to you?
I'd say for me, it's something that I pretty much NEED to have right now in my life. If I could get sex everyday, I would, and I would do it at least 2 times a day (more if time permits). When I was with my ex, we would have sex in the morning before work, a quicky when we came back from work or school, and then a hot steamy session at night.
When I go without sex for more than a month, I start to obsess over it. I know it sounds nuts but my hormones are still raging and my sex drive is off the limits right now. So I definitely don't want to waste all this sexual energy that I have for nothing and get older and feel like crap if I settle down and don't crave it as much. It's beyond that though, it's just that I simply love and enjoy sex, and like I said, my sex drive is ridiculously high right now. I still think with my head rather than my penis though, so I'm not desperate or anything. I'm just very particular with which lady I have sexual encounters with, and for me, I like it to have meaning. We don't need to be boyfriend or girlfriend but the relationship has to have more depth to it than just physical attraction.
Sex is important to me. I need someone on my wavelength, or it won't work out. I don't mean "quantity", necessarily, but the trust and willingness to explore the psychological aspects with each other. It's an intensely bonding experience when it's *right*. And when you have that with someone you love, it's incredible.
I used to be kind of frustrated about it, but ever since my girlfriend showed she trusts me, it actually has calmed down immensely. It does feel great not to be always so bothered by something. I guess there was a large mental component to it.
If it was up to me Id probably prefer it every other day? Too much of a good thing isn't good either =). Its not as important to me as personality, values, and whether or not she cares for me. Yes i am one of those guys that actually isn't about getting in your pants, how droll LOL.
Not that important, never think of it unless I am with my partner and when I was single I hardly thought of it at all
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