How important is sex to you? (free, alone, never, women)
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EDIT: Oh and... isn't it pretty normal for a woman not to climax during the actual... act? Doesn't mean there can't be pleasure gained from it, or that there aren't other ways to get that result.
Hmmm.... That's what I've always been told... (through the annoyingly sexually focused general media ...in Norway, mind you). I actually know at least a couple of girls who's admitted to me that they've never orgasmed during ...how to put this forum friendly... bumpin uglies. They need stimulation by hand or oral to have one.
At this point in your life, how important is sex to you?
I'd say for me, it's something that I pretty much NEED to have right now in my life. If I could get sex everyday, I would, and I would do it at least 2 times a day (more if time permits). When I was with my ex, we would have sex in the morning before work, a quicky when we came back from work or school, and then a hot steamy session at night.
When I go without sex for more than a month, I start to obsess over it. I know it sounds nuts but my hormones are still raging and my sex drive is off the limits right now. So I definitely don't want to waste all this sexual energy that I have for nothing and get older and feel like crap if I settle down and don't crave it as much. It's beyond that though, it's just that I simply love and enjoy sex, and like I said, my sex drive is ridiculously high right now. I still think with my head rather than my penis though, so I'm not desperate or anything. I'm just very particular with which lady I have sexual encounters with, and for me, I like it to have meaning. We don't need to be boyfriend or girlfriend but the relationship has to have more depth to it than just physical attraction.
Hmmm.... That's what I've always been told... (through the annoyingly sexually focused general media ...in Norway, mind you). I actually know at least a couple of girls who's admitted to me that they've never orgasmed during ...how to put this forum friendly... bumpin uglies. They need stimulation by hand or oral to have one.
Important but not an obsession. Intimacy is of UTMOST importance, however, and that can be accomplished both with and without sex. And not all sex is particularly intimate. So it just depends.
Hmmm.... That's what I've always been told... (through the annoyingly sexually focused general media ...in Norway, mind you). I actually know at least a couple of girls who's admitted to me that they've never orgasmed during ...how to put this forum friendly... bumpin uglies. They need stimulation by hand or oral to have one.
Not No, but Hell No!!
I don't understand women not have orgasms. You guys aren't concentrating. You're not in tuned with your bodies. Do you know your wants and needs. How can you tell a man to pleasure you. You don't know. Don't fault him. He's give his all. You just laying there.
After he finish with stimulating you with hand or oral. Are you gonna do the same?
Another thing, if you call it "bumping uglies". That's why you aren't having an orgasm. What's ugly.?
I don't understand women not have orgasms. You guys aren't concentrating. You're not in tuned with your bodies. Do you know your wants and needs. How can you tell a man to pleasure you. You don't know. Don't fault him. He's give his all. You just laying there.
After he finish with stimulating you with hand or oral. Are you gonna do the same?
Another thing, if you call it "bumping uglies". That's why you aren't having an orgasm. What's ugly.?
You might have more credibility if you could write coherently.
I don't understand women not have orgasms. You guys aren't concentrating. You're not in tuned with your bodies. Do you know your wants and needs. How can you tell a man to pleasure you. You don't know. Don't fault him. He's give his all. You just laying there.
After he finish with stimulating you with hand or oral. Are you gonna do the same?
Another thing, if you call it "bumping uglies". That's why you aren't having an orgasm. What's ugly.?
I don't really understand this post.
Who is just laying there? Have you been in their bedroom to know that? Why are you assuming he is giving his all and she is just laying there? Maybe he is clueless in bed and is only focused on his orgasm?
I do agree that women need to know their own bodies and what feels good and works for them. I have no problem asking for something specific or directing him towards something different if what he's doing isn't working. I'm sure there are women out there that are not comfortable asking for what they need.
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