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I think the poster you are replying to is stating the fact that most woman haven't climaxed from intercourse alone, without any additional stimulation.
The sad thing is that you are perpetuating a myth that if a woman doesn't climax by virtue of penetration alone, without a man's added attention, that she is somehow frigid.
And on top of that, posts like that put too much unneccessary pressure on both partners.
Not being able to climax with intercourse alone is actually fairly common thing amongst women. Majority of women need external stimulation to get there and some women can never get to it even with external stimulation. Also, some women have their vaginal entrance too far from their clitoris which makes a difference. If it's over 1", it makes it harder for a woman to achieve an orgasm through the intercourse.
I think putting pressure on a woman or perpetuating a myth that if a woman doesn't climax during the intercourse, then there is something wrong with her, is very damaging to a woman's and her partner's self esteem. It takes away from just relaxing and enjoying the ride, enjoying the process itself. You won't always get there and you don't need to! It's the ride that's important and not the destination. I learned that from Tantra.
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And on top of that, posts like that put too much unneccessary pressure on both partners.
Not being able to climax with intercourse alone is actually fairly common thing amongst women. Majority of women need external stimulation to get there and some women can never get to it even with external stimulation. Also, some women have their vaginal entrance too far from their clitoris which makes a difference. If it's over 1", it makes it harder for a woman to achieve an orgasm through the intercourse.
I think putting pressure on a woman or perpetuating a myth that if a woman doesn't climax during the intercourse, then there is something wrong with her, is very damaging to a woman's and her partner's self esteem. It takes away from just relaxing and enjoying the ride, enjoying the process itself. You won't always get there and you don't need to! It's the ride that's important and not the destination. I learned that from Tantra.
Ya know, ever since I was a nerdy young man trying to understand female anatomy, long before I even had ever been with a girl, I never understood how, if the clit, is the center of the universe, so to speak, why is it so far, from the entrance.... LOL
Ya know, ever since I was a nerdy young man trying to understand female anatomy, long before I even had ever been with a girl, I never understood how, if the clit, is the center of the universe, so to speak, why is it so far, from the entrance.... LOL
It seemed to be gods little practical joke.
I imagine that there is a practical reason for that too...although it does make a difference when it comes to sexual satisfaction.
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