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Old 02-18-2011, 06:54 AM
 
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I am sure he kind of knows.... I am being moved but now word is that he is getting promoted and if my boss finally leaves (she is waiting for a clearance) he will become my team lead... and then there is not a chance in hell we would be able to date. I can not date a boss.

However, it is still convinient because workwise he would let me get away with murder (I am very nice and most of my supervisors do let me get away with a lot, I know it is not fair but I am goign to school too... so I can appreciate it LOL). I know he likes me a lot.... I can see it on the way he looks at me... oh so romantic LOL
you better jump on it real quick before he becomes your boss!!!!
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Old 02-18-2011, 06:56 AM
 
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you better jump on it real quick before he becomes your boss!!!!
Yeah, but on the other side, having him as my boss would be super convinient. And my contract is not forever, we can always date after is over, because then I will be moved to another agency.
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Old 02-18-2011, 06:59 AM
 
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Yeah, but on the other side, having him as my boss would be super convinient. And my contract is not forever, we can always date after is over, because then I will be moved to another agency.
Ok it's your life but you keep coming up with reasons not to approach him. As a man who was in the "market" in my early 40's I would have like it if a woman would have asked me out. I woulda been nice actually.
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Old 02-18-2011, 07:04 AM
 
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I know ... In these hard economical times messing up with the boss is playing with fire and I need the job. I have to wait and see.
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Old 02-18-2011, 07:39 AM
 
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I was thinking about that... but I am very afraid of being rejected. So I am a chicken. I am leaving on vacation and be back on Wednesday. I will think about it.
Men get rejected too when they ask a woman out. It's not the end of the world. Just move on and make sure it doesn't impact your working environment.
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Old 02-18-2011, 08:27 AM
 
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I am sure he kind of knows.... I am being moved but now word is that he is getting promoted and if my boss finally leaves (she is waiting for a clearance) he will become my team lead... and then there is not a chance in hell we would be able to date. I can not date a boss.

However, it is still convinient because workwise he would let me get away with murder (I am very nice and most of my supervisors do let me get away with a lot, I know it is not fair but I am goign to school too... so I can appreciate it LOL). I know he likes me a lot.... I can see it on the way he looks at me... oh so romantic LOL
Haha, most women can always tell when we do. We aren't very good at hiding it. That is for the guys who are just waiting for the smallest hint or sign and HAVE the nards to pounce.
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Old 02-18-2011, 09:43 AM
 
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Ok, I'm lost for this one! lmao Hmmm, since when do women have a set of flaming gonads? lol
I guess bravery, a conquering spirit, risk taking, being determined, etc. seems to be a male virtue? Not sure because even women use those expressions.

Well CarolVa1977,
Did you have any contact with him today?
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Old 02-18-2011, 10:59 AM
 
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I guess bravery, a conquering spirit, risk taking, being determined, etc. seems to be a male virtue? Not sure because even women use those expressions.

Her boss doesn't appear to have those virtues, otherwise he would have asked her out by now. Or perhaps he isn't as interested in her as she thinks.
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Old 02-18-2011, 11:01 AM
 
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I guess bravery, a conquering spirit, risk taking, being determined, etc. seems to be a male virtue? Not sure because even women use those expressions.

Well CarolVa1977,
Did you have any contact with him today?
What do they need those for? They have boobs, butts and legs!
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Old 02-18-2011, 11:04 AM
 
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lol!
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