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Yes, these are good answers all. But what got you from saying, "No Way!" to "Hmmm, I think I'll try that..."?
Pain such as I never knew existed....which killed the person I was for a spell. Never did get that guy back completely. Never will.
From deep feelings about what a relationship was supposed to mean to a lack of any.feelings on it at all.
I cheated before I got married. But I didnt tell him untill a year later. He always brings it up. Now he saids hes gonna go cheat on me. Now gor some reason, I cant trust him.
I cheated before I got married. But I didnt tell him untill a year later. He always brings it up. Now he saids hes gonna go cheat on me. Now gor some reason, I cant trust him.
I just don't get the "for some reason" comment. The fact that you cheated on him and he now says he's going to cheat on you, isn't that the reason you can't trust him?
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I cheated before I got married. But I didnt tell him untill a year later. He always brings it up. Now he saids hes gonna go cheat on me. Now gor some reason, I cant trust him.
To me cheating and swinging are two different things. If you cheat you betray the trust of the one you are committed to, if you swing that is something you have agreed to with your SO or spouse.
Swinging is fine to me, though I've never done it and probably never would; cheating is an ultimate betrayal.
ok... here is my answer...first of all, we have only "played" around with all of this (meaning soft swap only and a bit of gg) I am a female homemaker in her early 40ies. Most people would say I am very attractive. I have been married for 18 years. We started all this to add some excitement...and it has! For the most part, I am very glad we have been doing this. My only problem (and why i am searching these threads) is that this lifestyle has brought out a side of my (maybe addiction?) that is not so good. I have grown to REALLY like going on cams with people watching. Humm, weird, I know!!!! So...do I regret getting into all this? no....BUT , you need to watch how and what the side effects of all this will be on you. I am just now trying to figure out how to deal with my issue
Sex is just skin rubbing together. I would be more upset if my significant other stole everything from my bank account. People are selfish with everything, even relationships. People are not property for you to call your own.
A lot of people on this thread are equating those who don't cheat to be moralists, radical Christians or close-minded. "juding others." I could care less whether others cheat or not and have no opinion either way. I am an atheist and completely non-judgmental but don't cheat because I love my husband. Nothing complicated about that or close-minded.
I have to laugh at those who say here, "life's too short and there are too many gorgeous women out there." As if all these gorgeous babes are gonna do you?
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I just don't get the "for some reason" comment. The fact that you cheated on him and he now says he's going to cheat on you, isn't that the reason you can't trust him?
