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ya...its starting to get really hard to deal with, especially the more I hear about friends getting married. I stay busy but then the minute I have time to think, that fear returns... . I think this fear stems mostly from the fact that its been about 2 and a half years since my last relationship and although I've been dating pretty consistently, its all been very bad luck so its looking more and more like I'm gonna wind up alone (so it seems anyways, I'm sure I'm wrong). I'm sure I do something to bring about that luck, but since I dont know what I'm doing to attract such bad luck, my last option is to just cope..somehow.
ya...its starting to get really hard to deal with, especially the more I hear about friends getting married. I stay busy but then the minute I have time to think, that fear returns... . I think this fear stems mostly from the fact that its been about 2 and a half years since my last relationship and although I've been dating pretty consistently, its all been very bad luck so its looking more and more like I'm gonna wind up alone (so it seems anyways, I'm sure I'm wrong). I'm sure I do something to bring about that luck, but since I dont know what I'm doing to attract such bad luck, my last option is to just cope..somehow.
How do you deal with it?
Honey, I've been dateless and single for over about a year and a half. I'm older than you are, and I've been rejected hundreds of times in that short period.
Want to know know how I do it?
F*ck 'em! Feeling mopey and sad will not help change anything!
Wish all of your friends a happy and long marriage! Your time has not come yet and when it does you'll be right there with the rest of them. Nothing to feel sad about!
I do as you do too. I'll bury myself in my work, and I hang around my friends often. I have too good a time to think about the what if's and thinking about them won't do a damn thing about the present.
Not to be offensive but don't be ridicilous. Try to go about 25 years since you're a teen dateless and sexless like me. It's not impossible.
Find ways to keep busy and don't envy your friends because their marriages won't always be a bed of roses.
You are so damn dishonest. You have another thread that has run on ad nauseum about how you had a hot woman who was really into you and you punked out and chased her away.
You make me sick. You cry because you're dateless and sexless and then you cry because you had a chance to fix that and refused to.
hahahhaa ya its more fun with someone else touching you!
Heck yes! Plus it gives my hand a break that night!
I'm going to have carpal tunnel syndrome before too long!
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