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What an insufferable guy. Totally clueless. Attaching so much weight to an offhand remark from a woman about a crush too. Some people really have low EQ and doesn't get human behavior at all. My empathy is high so it constantly amazes me that there are people on the other end.
Loss, what loss? Don't make me laugh. Lol.
You know this is like a 5-6 year old thread, right? Lol.
[quote=cpg35223;20641203]This is what is known as "game playing." And the problem with game playing is that it assumes that both parties know there's a game to begin with to play, and that they're both interested in playing it.
When will people learn to simply act on their desires?
I think acting aloof works more for guys, cause if I am not into a girl as much and act aloof, she often tries harder to get me interested... where if a girl does it to me, I automatically think she is not interested and move on. So maybe women respond to aloof, more positively than men?
I think acting aloof works more for guys, cause if I am not into a girl as much and act aloof, she often tries harder to get me interested... where if a girl does it to me, I automatically think she is not interested and move on. So maybe women respond to aloof, more positively than men?
She has to like you a little already in the first place. It's true, but not a healthy way to start a relationship. I'm attracted to guys who are good to me too, and I'd rather date them. Once I finally get the aloof guy, I lose interest. Or he can keep acting aloof, and I won't be happy and move on eventually. You're better off being yourself.
I think acting aloof works more for guys, cause if I am not into a girl as much and act aloof, she often tries harder to get me interested... where if a girl does it to me, I automatically think she is not interested and move on. So maybe women respond to aloof, more positively than men?
Yeah, for me, acting aloof has pretty much never worked, lol.
Acting aloof only potentially works if the woman is already into you. If not, no amount of aloofness will matter.
]Bascailly if the Op was interested then the porblem[/b] is he failed to recognise that she was shy.That is pretty common in many women in this society.But its a moot point since the Op didn't act on it himself.
A porblem? Man, those are rough to deal with. Problems on steroids
It seems to me that you each stubborned out on one another. Each thinking that the other should make the first move. It happens.
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