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I think some men find 'big' as in physically big, not necessarily fat, but especially tall and or strong intimidating.
Don't you hate how fat people, especially women have kind of hijacked words like 'big' and 'curvy.'
I'm a 'big' girl at 6'1 with curves and have had men tell me they were scared and intimidated by me. I've also had men tell me they would never date me because I was bigger than them and that's never fun. People have preferences and there's not much one can do about that.
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I'm a 'big' girl at 6'1 with curves and have had men tell me they were scared and intimidated by me. I've also had men tell me they would never date me because I was bigger than them and that's never fun. People have preferences and there's not much one can do about that.
I've heard people describe some 5'1" who were a little overweight as 'big.' Um, excuse me, to me big conjures up physical mass, not just being fat. Fat people are often big but not all fat people are big.
Yeah you'd be imposing and intimidating to most men. Imagine a skinny 5'5" man approaching you. I admit I probably wouldn't approach you but mostly because I feel tall women don't want to date shorter men.
Approach her to start a relationship? I would never be in a relationship with a big woman because for me that is a super turn off. It is not that I can't be friends with such a person, I can and do have large women for friends, but I don't spend any quality time with them. That may very well be a character flaw in me, but it is just the way I feel.
Just wondering? Up until this point I am just going to accept that I am big and that it is just a fact of life. What do the men think on here?
I like thick women. More meaty, for the greedy. Especially, when they don't mind me, spending their money. I'll take a big woman who takes care of me, over a supermodel who's high maintenance, any day.
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I like thick women. Especially, when they like spending money.
Which meaning of thick? lol
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