Girl wants a LTR, I don't (women, family, child, casual)

[Hawk50]

Originally Posted by lovesMountains

Did you miss the wisdom I tried to bestow on you about this sad, pathetic creature? Leave her alone!

WHY would you want to date someone with her issues when you are only 23???

IMO, sending her an honest message is better than standing her up.

[Whyte Byrd]

Originally Posted by lovesMountains

Did you miss the wisdom I tried to bestow on you about this sad, pathetic creature? Leave her alone!

WHY would you want to date someone with her issues when you are only 23???

He doesn't want to date her. He just wants to have sex with her. And no amount of wisdom is going to penetrate. We should save our fingers.

[JerZ]

Originally Posted by Hawk50

IMO, sending her an honest message is better than standing her up.

What message did you send to her?

[lovesMountains]

Originally Posted by Whyte Byrd

He doesn't want to date her. He just wants to have sex with her. And no amount of wisdom is going to penetrate. We should save our fingers.

These guys need to learn to think with the head between their shoulders and not the one between their legs

[Whyte Byrd]

Originally Posted by Hawk50

IMO, sending her an honest message is better than standing her up.

If you were honest, that message would've just said, sorry, I lied and said I changed my mind in hopes of getting sex. I don't really want a LTR.

[lovesMountains]

Originally Posted by JerZ

What message did you send to her?

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[Hawk50]

Originally Posted by lovesMountains

These guys need to learn to think with the head between their shoulders and not the one between their legs

are you all blind? I just posted i messaged her telling her the truth.

[McBain II]

Originally Posted by Hawk50

So I met this girl on plenty of fish, and we started talking on there. We have talked on the phone several times, and get along GREAT, make each other laugh, etc.

Anyways, she's a swinger, and has turned me on a lot by telling me her experiences.

Problem is, she is 27m has kids, can get sex whenever she wants, so she wants a LTR. I do not, under any circumstance (I am 23). I told her this, and she said she sees no point in meeting up if we want different things. So we stopped talking.

I contacted her again, with a bs story that I changed my mind. She bought it, and now wants to meet.

I am just looking to get laid, I bet she'd be AMAZING in bed with her experience. But I do feel bad about lying to her.

What should I do?

There is nothing worse than building a relationship (and I use that term loosely, meaning any type of relationship) on a lie. It will be bad for you, and bad for her.

Honesty is key.

[lovesMountains]

Originally Posted by Hawk50

are you all blind? I just posted i messaged her telling her the truth.

You are missing the point

YOU should be smart enough to size her up and RUN the other direction (using the big head).

Instead, you are thinking with your small head and still trying to figure out a way to tap some of that.

[sierraAZ]

Originally Posted by Bosco55David

There is nothing worse than building a relationship (and I use that term loosely, meaning any type of relationship) on a lie. It will be bad for you, and bad for her.

Honesty is key.

Is THAT right? Should I dig for some posts from probably not even a week ago...?