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Old 02-26-2012, 09:49 PM
 
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So I met this girl on plenty of fish, and we started talking on there. We have talked on the phone several times, and get along GREAT, make each other laugh, etc.

Anyways, she's a swinger, and has turned me on a lot by telling me her experiences.

Problem is, she is 27m has kids, can get sex whenever she wants, so she wants a LTR. I do not, under any circumstance (I am 23). I told her this, and she said she sees no point in meeting up if we want different things. So we stopped talking.

I contacted her again, with a bs story that I changed my mind. She bought it, and now wants to meet.

I am just looking to get laid, I bet she'd be AMAZING in bed with her experience. But I do feel bad about lying to her.

What should I do?
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Old 02-26-2012, 09:54 PM
 
Location: Davenport, Iowa
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So I met this girl on plenty of fish, and we started talking on there. We have talked on the phone several times, and get along GREAT, make each other laugh, etc.

Anyways, she's a swinger, and has turned me on a lot by telling me her experiences.

Problem is, she is 27m has kids, can get sex whenever she wants, so she wants a LTR. I do not, under any circumstance (I am 23). I told her this, and she said she sees no point in meeting up if we want different things. So we stopped talking.

I contacted her again, with a bs story that I changed my mind. She bought it, and now wants to meet.

I am just looking to get laid, I bet she'd be AMAZING in bed with her experience. But I do feel bad about lying to her.

What should I do?
You should call off the date.
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Old 02-26-2012, 09:57 PM
 
Location: Pa
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She's a 27 m? And yeah your a you know what. But so is she.
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Old 02-26-2012, 09:57 PM
 
Location: Everybody is going to hurt you, you just gotta find the ones worth suffering for-B Marley
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You're only as good as your word. If yours is worth nothing.....well....
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Old 02-26-2012, 10:03 PM
 
Location: Up above the world so high!
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So I met this girl on plenty of fish, and we started talking on there. We have talked on the phone several times, and get along GREAT, make each other laugh, etc.

Anyways, she's a swinger, and has turned me on a lot by telling me her experiences.

Problem is, she is 27m has kids, can get sex whenever she wants, so she wants a LTR. I do not, under any circumstance (I am 23). I told her this, and she said she sees no point in meeting up if we want different things. So we stopped talking.

I contacted her again, with a bs story that I changed my mind. She bought it, and now wants to meet.

I am just looking to get laid, I bet she'd be AMAZING in bed with her experience. But I do feel bad about lying to her.

What should I do?

Oh my god, this is an actual question that you really don't know the answer to??

She is a very young mother with FOUR children and a twisted sad sense of what she wants in life, probably all born out of a craving to be wanted and loved.

Try looking beyond the hot body and fantasy and pity her enough to walk away.

No real man wants to mess with a woman who's this screwed up.

BE A MAN, not a horn dog.
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Old 02-26-2012, 10:16 PM
 
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Oh my god, this is an actual question that you really don't know the answer to??

She is a very young mother with FOUR children and a twisted sad sense of what she wants in life, probably all born out of a craving to be wanted and loved.

Try looking beyond the hot body and fantasy and pity her enough to walk away.

No real man wants to mess with a woman who's this screwed up.

BE A MAN, not a horn dog.
She has 2 kids.

Should I meet with her once, or not at all?
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Old 02-26-2012, 10:17 PM
 
Location: Viña del Mar, Chile
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Oh my god, this is an actual question that you really don't know the answer to??

She is a very young mother with FOUR children and a twisted sad sense of what she wants in life, probably all born out of a craving to be wanted and loved.

Try looking beyond the hot body and fantasy and pity her enough to walk away.

No real man wants to mess with a woman who's this screwed up.

BE A MAN, not a horn dog.

I gotta agree here, have some class.
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Old 02-26-2012, 10:19 PM
 
Location: Everybody is going to hurt you, you just gotta find the ones worth suffering for-B Marley
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She has 2 kids.

Should I meet with her once, or not at all?
Wow.
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Old 02-26-2012, 10:19 PM
 
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Okay, I won't use her for sex. Do I at least meet with her, or not?
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Old 02-26-2012, 10:20 PM
 
Location: Davenport, Iowa
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Okay, I won't use her for sex. Do I at least meet with her, or not?
Why do you want to meet her if you're looking for two different things?
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