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Just a question, I recently talked to an old crush of mine are Facebook, I don't have any feelings for her, but she is 20 years old and has a child. Her boyfriend hasn't been heard from since they had an argument. I thought it would be interesting to ask, would you date someone you were interested in even if they have a child? What would you do? Would you treat them any differently?
Nope, I'd like to be able to give ALL my attention to my wife; not her and her kid. That's why I got snipped. Now I just need to find a pretty, secular/freethinking young (or older) woman who's cool with being childless.
Don't Moms tell their daughters "it's just as easy to fall in love with a rich man than a poor one?"
Yes, the bold item shown above is correct. For others, the issue is "not much in common" any more.
Mine never did. I think she said something along the lines of we cant help who we fall in love with.
But really every parent wants to see their child happy. Would you not advise them to try to choose a partner well. I told my sons and all the young guys to stay away from crazy byotches.
Will a guy with no kids date you if you have kids? Hell yes, if you are hot enough. And he is desparate enough. He will boink you all day long and twice on Sundays. Marry you? Not likely.
9 times out of 10 a single mom is dating wayyyy below her league when she settles for a younger guy with no kids. Then one day she wakes up, realizes he isn't gonna marry her, and that she has been boinking fugly for nothing.
Grow some ovaries and hold out for a quality single Dad. Chances are he might actually want and accept you and your kids.
Will a guy with no kids date you if you have kids? Hell yes, if you are hot enough. And he is desparate enough. He will boink you all day long and twice on Sundays. Marry you? Not likely.
Eh, it depends... It depends on:
- how hot she is
- how desperate he is
There are plenty of examples of this happening when the values of both variables are high.
Will a guy with no kids date you if you have kids? Hell yes, if you are hot enough. And he is desparate enough. He will boink you all day long and twice on Sundays. Marry you? Not likely.
9 times out of 10 a single mom is dating wayyyy below her league when she settles for a younger guy with no kids. Then one day she wakes up, realizes he isn't gonna marry her, and that she has been boinking fugly for nothing.
Grow some ovaries and hold out for a quality single Dad. Chances are he might actually want and accept you and your kids.
I think your theory has already been debunked here.
signed
single mother of 2 who married younger professional childless man
Nope, I'd like to be able to give ALL my attention to my wife; not her and her kid. That's why I got snipped. Now I just need to find a pretty, secular/freethinking young (or older) woman who's cool with being childless.
We do exist.
But hey, just to say that we do doesn't mean that we're all sane, logical, self-sufficient, etc. There are just as many nuts and flakes in the CF community as there are in the pool of daters who want to have kids one day (or who are single with kids).
Not great news, eh?
My advice to you would be to look past a woman's CF status. See the whole package. Look at her values and how well she's willing to treat you. A woman being childfree is not enough to base a relationship or marriage on.
But hey, just to say that we do doesn't mean that we're all sane, logical, self-sufficient, etc.
I contribute to the self-sufficient, somewhat logical, and reasonably sane pool!
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