Do you ever toss and turn over your partner's previous sexual experiences? (lover, younger)

[expect]

maybe if i was a virgin or 19 years old or something. i'm in my 20's and women sharing themselves doesn't bother me like it would have when i was a teenager. or if i was a virgin.

[virgode]

Originally Posted by byfuglien

Like think/want to know each detail about them and whether they still have any feelings for fantasies about those experiences?

I do.

No, I never have.

Possible reasons why:

1. Not comfortable with your partners sexual history.

2. You're seriously insecure about your own ability to satisfy your partner, sexually inexperienced, or possibly obssessive.

3. Details... If you're getting gratification, its vouyerism fantasies.

[Doll Eyes]

I read a quote once: "the best predictor of future behavior, is past behavior," or something to that effect.

[virgode]

Originally Posted by Doll Eyes

I read a quote once: "the best predictor of future behavior, is past behavior," or something to that effect.

Theres another expression too, "Sowing your wild oats".

[Doll Eyes]

Originally Posted by virgode

Theres another expression too, "Sowing your wild oats".

That expression sounds like a pass for otherwise unsavory behavior, but carry on.

[virgode]

Originally Posted by Doll Eyes

That expression sounds like a pass for otherwise unsavory behavior, but carry on.

Perhaps....another double standard acceptable for men, not women.

[Doll Eyes]

Originally Posted by virgode

Perhaps....another double standard acceptable for men, not women.

what? it's acceptable for whomever decides it's acceptable. If two people have no problem with it, doesn't matter what I think about it.

[lovesMountains]

Originally Posted by byfuglien

Like think/want to know each detail about them and whether they still have any feelings for fantasies about those experiences?

I do.

Got some self-esteem issues don't you?

[JosephV55]

Originally Posted by byfuglien

Like think/want to know each detail about them and whether they still have any feelings for fantasies about those experiences?

I do.

Naw... I'm simply the best.

[Ceece]

No. When I was very VERY young it concerned me a bit but it's really immature thinking. At my age now it's more than immature, it's downright mental.

Sex is what it is, partnership is way more.